What the Christian Critique of Porn Gets Wrong
Epigraph
In order to know virtue, we must first acquaint ourselves with vice.
– Marquis De Sade
A few years ago (around 2017) I clicked on a video of a YouTuber named Fr. Mike Schmitz. A priest, in his mid-forties, and I decided to give it a few minutes. It was interesting. As he managed to even included references to Tolkien’s universe, and soon I had reached the end of the video. This was my introduction to this Catholic priest’s online ministry.
Whilst I never became a fan of his messages, and his method of engaging the things that matter (the bloke seemed too self-indulgent). Nonetheless, his arguments were reasonably well made, and for a while, I made it a point to check out his content on a weekly basis (1). In time, as YouTube’s algorithms got to work, I started receiving recommendations for content related to his.
As one may know, if one spends enough time on YouTube, the temptation to click on these less relevant, but yet interesting content, with flashy titles, only grows stronger. Doing so, eventually led me to a YouTube channel named ‘Steubenville Conferences’: A Christian (Catholic) congregation, from what I could gather, one that was aimed primarily towards the youth. Teenagers mainly.
A conference that seemed to follow an old evangelical formula of engaging the ‘Word’, by bringing in various Christian speakers from different walks of life, and then giving them a platform to speak to these young people on subjects of God, life, and morality. Whilst extolling the idea that following the example of Christ was more than simply about being a believer in God (2).
In the course of these videos, which I got into the habit of viewing on Sunday mornings as a part of my ‘day of rest and holiness’ routine-I ‘ran into’ a bloke named Matt Fradd. A curious individual. Australian, and apparently very proud of the fact that he is from down under. What was more curious about him was the manner in which he engaged subjects related to the Christian Faith.
His speeches often started with a long-winding personal story/introduction, which was combined with attempts at humor: the try-hard, wannabe comedian type. I guess this sort of thing is par for the course in such events. As it involves teenagers; hence the adults probably see it fit to make their speeches more “interesting”, as a way of keeping these easily-bored, young souls engaged for longer. However, what stood out about this particular individual, was that he habitually took to engaging one particular subject with the young audience. Pornography.
My views about his persona aside, Mr. Fradd in a number of his videos/speeches, to what seemed like sizeable audiences-at least six that I encountered-and almost all of them addressed to adolescents engaged this controversial subject. He did so critically, but also in an “evangelical” manner. Meaning, whilst he was trying to preach against the dangers of pornography (i.e. that it was immoral), but at the same time was trying to tell the young people why following Jesus was the best thing they could do with their lives (3).
This approach to evangelization, I found problematic for a number of reasons. However, it is one that is increasingly common within Christian circles. A reality, which to me points to a deeper problem. Not with pornography and its ubiquity. But with the presentation of the Faith. Curious to know why? Before I answer this, it is best we start by studying the popularity of pornography. I mean, the very fact that these preachers see it worth their time to engage it, implies that besides its ubiquity; pornography is a pertinent issue for many of these God-fearing souls. The question of course is, why?
You see, pornography, despite its inherently controversial character; with respect to the content that it depicts, there are certain things that work in its favor. For despite its ignominious status in the moral, cultural, legal, spiritual, and paradoxically sexual spheres; pornography actually does a number of things right. Whilst sex is the obvious selling point of this genre of ‘human expression’, in the commercial and artistic sense. However, upon deeper inspection, pornography touches on a number of things that are good, positive, and yes, even uplifting about the human experience. Factors that are related to, but also transcend the sexual dimension. Phenomena which the puritanical religious, with their simple, dogmatically tuned minds are unwilling or incapable of acknowledging.
What Porn Gets Right
When speaking of the positives of porn, a good place to start is the numbers. If you have worked in SEO (search engine optimization), or have done anything related to content creation aimed at meeting user demands and expectations; a key principle is that, when it comes to online search, the three things that really matter are: Keywords (what topics people are looking for); Volume (how many are doing it in a given time); and Content: does your business or enterprise able to provide what people are looking for in terms of information, in adequate quantities. These variables, if understood correctly, and are catered to with relevant products and services, would determine the success of the business venture that relies on this channel.
When it comes to pornography, despite its many problems-some of which we shall get into-what is indisputable is the sheer amount of time that people, a vast number of people, from virtually every corner of the globe; from many walks of life spend time looking for. And when they find it (online sex of their preference), the time they spend consuming it (4). Based on the numbers alone, logic tells us that the pornographic industry, despite all the fire it gets, seemingly from all sides, is doing something right. Very right. Kinda like good music.
See, when a music video goes viral on YouTube, for example, it does so, because it is providing the viewers/ listeners something they like, find appealing, stimulating, interesting, etc. And depending on how good it is, it is able to make a lot of people feel those positive sets of emotions. All of which works into the key principle underlying content creation and dissemination: The importance of providing something of value.
When the search engines algorithms recognize the content as “good”, “relevant” or “useful”, such content gets pushed higher up the search results. And if enough people click on them, spend enough time on sites they link to, engage with content, share them on the same/or related platforms, etc. Then the content in question, literally ‘blows up’ over the internet.
From an evangelical standpoint, the very fact that these religious types, from across the Christian world (as I can attest), who are in the business of spreading the Good News, see it worthwhile to engage this particular facet of life, tells you something about its popularity or should I say, pervasiveness. Isn’t it funny how these people whose main task is to speak about God, have all simultaneously converged on the idea of speaking about (against) pornography as a worthwhile endeavor? Far too many times I have encountered actually, and digitally; religious leaders of various types, along with lay members active in Christian ministry (like Mr. Fradd), engaging the subject (i.e. evils) of pornography. But why though?
Think about it. Critiquing this phenomenon, within an evangelical context, seems almost instinctual for these lot, and one explanation is that porn has become a facet of life that many if not all of these individuals/critics are either closed off to… For the wrong reasons. Whose discomfort with, or inability to engage this reality for what it is (sex in the raw). Due to a variety of personal, social inhibitions and limitations, the individuals in question have not been studied. In sum, when it comes to the method of critiquing porn within religious circles, it is a fair conjecture that there’s a lot of hypocrisy around. But that’s just the starting point of this problem.
Before going further. It is best that I point out, what kind of pornographic content that I am NOT talking about. First, when one speaks of pornography, what is referred to in the course of this essay is the legal kind. Speaking of most Western countries, where pornography is legal; so what falls under the category of legal adult content, are those that do NOT involve minors: Those below the legal age of consent (18 or 21). In terms of its legality, it refers to adult content that involves consenting adults, who have NOT been forced, intimidated, pressured, or manipulated into performing or engaging in sexual acts, that they are uncomfortable doing at any stage of the process.
By legal, what is being referred to is adult content that does NOT involve persons who have been trafficked, emotionally pressured or tricked, or were at some point in the course of production, been under the influence of alcohol, or drugs: legal or otherwise. Meaning the performers are in full control of their senses and are carrying out a given role, in accordance with the contractual agreements, which they have already signed. By ‘legal adult content, pornography, or porn as it is referred to in the course of this essay involves the performance of sexual acts, that involves NO physical or psychological harm to all parties involved. (Here I would also include simulated harm: physical or emotional. Case in point: the 50 Shades popularized BDSM genre. Which is also excluded from this essay.
The legal pornography that is being engaged in the course of this study only involves those who are doing paid work: who are remunerated financially, along with other legal benefits as compensation for their work. Which includes the entrepreneurial kind (i.e. where the performer is also a producer). Further, pornographic content in the acceptable/legal sense is those which give the performers complete freedom during, before, and after the shoot, to exit at their own discretion. Such as the right to ‘Stop’, or say ‘No’ to the proceedings (i.e. whilst the act/acts are in progress). Meaning the performers have the full freedom to walkway the moment they feel uncomfortable with what is going on.
Alright, with that attempt at outlining the legal parameters of what constitutes pornography that is legal and acceptable, let’s get down to the specifics, shall we? Often the problem in religious circles is that whenever the subject of pornography is raised, it is done so solely, and I guess quite naturally from a critical standpoint. Pornography = Sinful. Porn = Immoral. Porn = Evil. Case closed. End of story. So beyond this point, it becomes virtually impossible, for the religious to constructively engage this subject, let alone to be able to advance a critic of this subject that goes beyond shallow, instinctual condemnation.
Given the preexisting negativity that people bring with them into this subject, one that is often built on-as I shall argue, deep-rooted, anti-sexual prejudices-what results from these religious engagements of porn are often undermining to the pursuit of truth, and with respect to the evangelical aim: which is to produce good, moral Christians; ultimately counterproductive.
Whilst pornography is controversial for more reasons than one (Who can deny that). The fact is that it is almost universally condemned by virtually all religions in the world (the monotheistic ones notably). And the fact that its legal status across the world, even in parts of the world, where it is generally accepted, is always under question. And at the socio-cultural level, the legal consumption of porn by adults is generally frowned upon in all social circles. Despite the fact that its consumption, being almost universal in practice. Ought to give us some pause. For despite these many sources of opposition, the popularity of porn, if the statistics are anything to go buy, is here to say.
So we as a society, whether we approach the matter from a religious or secular perspective, the onus is on us to deal with it constructively. Unfortunately, the predictable practice amongst religious and secular critics of porn is to start by condemning it. To condemn it more. And to maintain a mindset that is perpetually condemnatory in character when it comes to it. A state of mind which translates into the variety of restrictive measures that religious and civil authorities have imposed against it:
From the various restrictions that civil government has placed on access to pornographic content across the world: such as the near-total bans in much of the Islamic world, to the various restrictions on production and distributions in parts of Asia, to the various prohibitions on certain kinds of (legal) pornographic content found in parts of the West. Such as in the U.K, where government the brought restrictions on a number of (legal) adult content categories: notably their production by local adult content makers. Since the U.K is one of the largest sources of adult content, this imposition is telling (5).
In parts of Scandinavia where opposition to pornography takes a different, more ideological form. In these feminist strongholds that are notorious for their opposition to sexual polarity (despite their liberal attitudes towards sex): Where State-funded gender equality programs, that are obsessed with equalizing outcomes and in the process exhibit little consideration for the social dynamics that result from the differences in biological sexuality (6). In this regard, opposition to pornography takes on a more systematized, one could say cultural form. The study of which is a subject for another time (7).
Despite the many obstacles to porn, that take the form of various legal restrictions; whose origins emanate from a multiplicity of sources: moral, religious, secular, and ideological (feminism). Pornographic content continues to command tremendous demand across the globe. Here it is worth mentioning the sheer number of time spent by human beings across the globe on only one of the top free porn streaming sites in the world for the year 2019.
Which came down to a staggering 5,824,699,200 hours. Which equates to a monstrous 665,000 years (8). With the porn streaming site in question being ranked amongst the top 10 of the most visited sites for the year 2019. Raking up 3.36 billion visits (9). These stats alone ought to tell you that pornography, based on consumption practices, has become something of a mass human pastime. A universal one.
If one wishes to delve further into the statistics; until the rise of social media, and more recently with the rapid growth in online video streaming platforms like Netflix and YouTube; much of the internet’s bandwidth was taken up by adult content. Even after the advent and now dominance of these major video streaming sites, along with the rise in social media, pornographic content still accounts for around 30 percent of all data that flow through cyberspace (10). So despite these changes taking place in the internet landscape; with much of our lives moving online, pornographic sites, based on the data, continue to dominate the internet highways, in terms of search, access to sites that provide relevant content, and the hours spent.
So from the sheer number of pornographic sites to the vast amount of time that people spend even on a handful of free adult content streaming sites; in addition to the growth in new pornographic categories and genres; along with new forms of adult content production: Notable here is the rapid growth in amateur/homemade content. Where novice pornographers-a number of them couples in real relationships-who proceed to record their intimate moments for dedicated, paying audiences. Some of whom produce content as per the dictates of their subscribers.
The rise in amateur adult content, much of it presumably shot in bedrooms, that have been turned into make-shift studios, has accelerated under the new way of life imposed by the COVID lockdowns. In addition to a life that is increasingly limited to the home; economic hardships imposed by decreased economic activity are also driving the desperate, to find new sources of income (11). Since sex sells. Pornography, that is the selling of graphic, fantastical sex to third parties (who number, potentially in the hundreds of millions) is a logical cash-generating candidate.
So what are to make of this? What are we to make of the reality of porn, in relation to my argument that porn gets something right. Returning to my point on the relationship between the vast, global demand for pornography, and its relationship to the idea of the ‘good’ is worth considering in light of these realities. Look at it this way: If pornography is so evil, bad, immoral, exploitative, wicked, etc. As its critics routinely cast it out to be, then why do people, so many people, across the globe-arguably almost every person who has had access to the internet at some point or the other, watch it? Is it because it is doing something wrong? Or… Is it because it is managing to do something right. One that, in a way, corresponds to the good?
For a light theological take on this subject. As an analogy, consider why Eve if you believe the story, the mother of humanity, found the Serpent’s arguments in favor of eating the fruit from the Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil persuasive? In addition to the intellectual upliftment that Satan promised would come via the consumption of the fruit; Eve was incentivized to eat “the fruit of the tree was good for food and pleasing to the eye” (12). In other words, what the fruit promised, in addition to wisdom, was physical nourishment, that was made possible by the sensory stimulation it was able to elicit. Like great pie, it’s not good enough simply to be told about, or be in the presence of it. Getting a bite of the tasty-looking morsel is what seals the deal.
Upon eating the fruit, Adam and Eve gain a deeper insight into the nature of reality (i.e. the fact that they were naked). Like God to an extent. A stimulating revelation in its own right. This new insight does come with a certain liberating effect. Knowing the difference between being naked or not. Big change! However, that’s where the fun stops for the first humans. For despite the initial information boost, and the feel-good effects that it brings, this new knowledge came with a price. Death. Or rather, ultimate death. Whilst Satan did lie when stating that eating the fruit from the Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil will not lead to death. However, Satan was telling a partial truth in that death was not an immediate consequence.
For the death that resulted from eating the fruit of the Tree of the Knowledge of Good was an inescapable one. Akin to ill-effects of porn addiction: where the corrosive effects that result from the habitual use of this initially stimulating medium snowball and manifest over time. Like the effects of Evil, which grow, accretion, and ultimately destroy the soul of the person from within. With death being the endpoint. Yes death, the tragic character of life, one that marks the beauty of the Creation. Captured by those tragic words:
“By the sweat of your brow you will eat your food until you return to the ground since from it you were taken; for dust you are and to dust you will return” (ibid).
So when it comes to porn, the Christian critic is right in stating that it is evil. In that it is representative of something that leads man towards the effects of evil, vis a vie sin. Porn addiction as mentioned is one of the banes of society. The evils of human trafficking and the exploitation of minors which are characterized by illegal pornographic content are the most serious. And in more recent times, the adverse effects of porn on young men, especially their social relationships: where the increasing access and use of porn are being associated with fewer relationships with women, and hence fewer sexual encounters, and poor relationship quality overall (13).
In other words, the ill effects of porn are an increasingly well-documented phenomenon even outside the world of the faith. But more work needs to be done in understanding the nature porn, and the factors and forces underlying its use. That is to say, more attention is needed on the demand side of this equation that drives its existence and popularity, in addition to combating the evils of human trafficking, forced labor, and the exploitation of minors, which are the notable dark sides of the pornographic world.
However, despite these serious shortfalls, the underlying and universal appeal of porn can not be ignored. The reasons why people are consuming more and more of it, to a point where it is even become (subconsciously) a viable, though poor, alternative to real relationships, means that it is doing something right. Something that is evil, from a moral standpoint, and in terms of the ultimate consequences, even when studied from a purely secular perspective. However at a certain, one could say functional level, it is doing something right.
In his great Summa, Thomas Aquinas attempts to describe the nature of good and evil. To the objection that “not every being is good”, he responds by stating that “[e]very being that is not God is God’s creature. Now every creature of God is good [..] and God is the greatest good. Therefore every being is good”. And in the course of his four ‘replies’ to the ‘objections’ he further states that: “Every being, as being is good. For all being, as being, has actuality and is in some way perfect; since every act implies some sort of perfection; and perfection implies desirability and goodness [..]” (14).
In explaining the nature of evil, Aquinas states: “No being can be spoken of as evil, formally as being, but only so far as it lacks being. Thus a man is said to be evil because he lacks some virtue; and an eye is said to be evil because it lacks the power to see well” (ibid). Going further, on the question of whether God wills evil, he engages that the subject of pursuing something that qualifies as evil (like porn), as an end in itself.
Aquinas explains that the want (or pursuit) of something evil is due to its relationship, or perceived association with something that is good (actually or potentially): “[S]ince evil is opposed to good, it is impossible that any evils, as such should be sought for by the appetite, either natural, or by the intellectual, or animal, or by the intellectual appetite which is the will.
Nevertheless, evil may be sought accidentally, so far as it accompanies a good, as appears in each of the appetites” (ibid). Aquinas, the great mind, but one that was grounded in reality, goes onto explain: “For a natural agent intends not privation or corruption, but the form to which is annexed the privation of some other form, and the generation of one thing, which implies the corruption of another. […] [So] when a lion kills a stag, his object is his food, to obtain which the killing of the animal is only the means. Similarly, the fornicator [or pornographer/viewer] has merely pleasure [and profit] for his object, and the deformity of sin is only an accompaniment (ibid).
So when it comes to porn, which is evil: that it is sexual immorality, that deviates from God’s plan for what human intimacy was meant for; nonetheless contains elements of goodness in it. So the person who logs into an adult site is doing so, not because he is trying to find and indulge in something that is inherently evil. Rather he doing so because he hopes to gain, experience, or be a part of something that he thinks, will give him something, or something related to what is good. Coming from a strongly Catholic environment, I have spoken and listened to, and been in the company of many a Catholic priest, seminarian, brother from many parts of the world (notably Europe, the Americas, and Asia).
One of the common subjects that get engaged in such fellowships is the subject of sex; which is invariably engaged in a critical or distant manner. To use the sermons as an example, there have been far too many times that the Catholic clergy have engaged the “evils” of pornography (and by extension masturbation). To a point where I as the listener, and I am sure others like me, was left wondering: Geez is this what occupies the minds of these people? The focus on such subjects, notably the focus on teaching the rest of us the dos and don’ts of what counts as acceptable sexual conduct. It’s always curious as to why these men had to, with almost predictable formality, engage such specific subjects.
Well, the answer, with some reflection becomes quite straightforward: As lifelong celibates, these men are denied (or have denied themselves) relationships with women, and by extension, sex. Hence the reason why pornography and masturbation (sins) have become major sources of concern for them, and their flock (even though we didn’t ask for it), is due to the lack of something good in their lives. That is the sexual dimension, which these people (like Fr. Schmitz) have closed themselves off to. Hence owing to lack of the goodness that is bought forth by the company and union with women, drives them to, one would imagine finding refuge in, sex-substitutes like pornography.
So pornography, since it seeks to embody the reality of human sexuality, at a number of levels, as I shall argue; is doing something good. For other than visually capturing the beauty of sex (this especially true in the case of erotica, as opposed to hardcore content), it also becomes a vehicle for communicating the positive aspects of life that are inherently or indirectly associated with the sexual. Meaning, porn as a reality needs to be studied outside the vacuum of the ‘viewer-producer’ framework. Whereby the reality of carnal unions that are being played out for the titillation of consumers, and profit for the producers, need to be situated and understood (and dare, I say appreciated) for what it seeks to represent in its totality.
So pornography, retuning to the theological dimension of the problem, whilst clearly, a manifestation of something evil; is not inherently so. Rather the wickedness it embodies manifests only by way of its incompleteness. Its misdirected purpose in presenting aspects of sexuality, that many (or most) naturally find appealing for the inherent goodness that it carries. Despite the overt unpleasantness that it is instinctively associated with. Kinda like sex if you think about it. Caz sex, whilst being something that (almost) everyone enjoys, but at the same time it is something that almost all feel uncomfortable, at various levels in openly engaging it. So pornography, whilst it carries many potential harms, at certain levels it embodies something good. In the following sections, I will break down a few of them.
Porn is an Industry
In case it isn’t obvious already, one of the good things about the pornographic industry is that it provides work for those involved. Since much of the critical attention in relation to porn, is directed towards those who waste hours of their time in front of the screen, so it is natural that what takes place “behind the scenes” tends to get ignored. At the end of the day, pornography provides people, presumably a large number of them, a livelihood. Findings show that the adult industry in the U.S alone is worth somewhere between $10-12 billion, with the global business coming in at around $97 billion (15). That’s quite a bit of money. And, in case the point is missed, such a level of economic activity brings with it the opportunity to make a livelihood.
Thus the financial incentives when it comes to porn are not only real but relative to the payoffs from what one can make by, let’s say by doing a minimum wage job, are greater. Which is kind of the reason why the industry even exists. Whilst things have not all been smooth sailing in recent times; for as porn, just like any profit-oriented enterprise needs to produce, compete, add value, and face legal and regulatory challenges in order to thrive (16). But its enduring popularity in terms of sheer human interest, combined with the economic dimension that underlies it needs to be considered.
But, the counterargument to this will naturally follow: To venture into porn, as a way of meeting one’s financial needs is a sign of desperation and a pathway towards lifelong stigmatization. For like prostitution, this career path is not the choice of those who are following their “passion”, to say nothing of those who wish to pursue their vocation. This is a valid criticism.
Whilst there could be exceptions, working in porn, no matter how great the financial incentives, is not the ideal place to make a living. But that’s the problem. Despite the many moral and social dilemmas associated with it, porn, like prostitution-another sexual sin, and crime, depending on what part of the world you’re from-is something that society has not been able to be rid of, despite the obvious moral and social dilemmas that are associated with it.
For whilst sex that is transactional in basis, is almost universally condemned, the need for it, and its widespread use, has endured in various forms for thousands of years. So whilst the religious might bemoan the evils of pornography and sexual immorality more generally; at the end of the day, it is powerless to affect the underlying causes that give rise to them. The trade-in sex, for which pornography is a part, is a more complex subject, that goes beyond pontification about morality. One that connects with other facets of reality. Notably on the need for sex.
For example, the use of porn as an outlet to meet one’s sexual cravings- however inadequately-is step higher in the moral scales in contrast to what took place in ancient times. When conquering armies were given a free hand to destroy and pillage the defeated. Which often meant the women of the subjugated were fair game when it comes to exploitation, rape, and in some cases sex slavery. Whilst such practices haven’t entirely gone away even in more recent times (e.g. the mass rape of German women by the Soviet Red Army in WWII). However, such crimes are almost universally condemned.
Interestingly, the Old Testament has a few things to say on this matter. Deuteronomy 21: 10-14, provides guidelines on dealing with women captured in war. In addition to the heinously unthinkable practice of compelling women to marry their rapists (Deuteronomy 22: 28-29). Such practices being sanctioned by any authority, religious or otherwise would be unthinkable today. However, it is a testament to the character of the human, particularly the male mind, on the importance that it places on sex. When it comes to porn, despite all of its shortfalls, at least it is not an outlet where actual women are harmed in the process of helping men meet their sexual needs and wants. Or worse one that is given divine sanction.
So when it comes to the common practice of simply condemning porn for its immoral character does not take the debate forward. At best, the religious (Christian) critic of porn, which is often a purely moral one, can help shed light on the Fallen state of Man, whose predilection for evil goes beyond knowing the moral character of actions, and the consequences that follow, an being able to choose between them.
The inability on part of the religious to understand them, for the lack of a better word, the ‘psychological’ dimension that underlies the demand for porn, means that its moral approach in understanding the subject is misplaced from the outset. Given the fact that there are a lot of people who are seeking the goodness that is found in porn (like fornication); however indirectly or incompletely with which it is embodied, means that porn is doing something right. Something which the religious critic, and underlying it, its reductive worldview is unable to recognize.
Further, when one factors in the rise in demand for paid adult content: where people are willing to shell out the cash for subscriptions and other premium content, the element of quality now enters the mix (). A factor that only further reinforces the argument for the ‘goodness’ of porn.
The positives that are associated with porn are such, that people are even willing to pay money (i.e. to vote for its approval), despite the free availability of, presumably lesser quality content. In other words, it can be said there is a certain hierarchy of goodness that is embodied in pornographic content. One that corresponds to the quality of the content (e.g. HD content, on-demand, etc), and the deeper meaning it implies when it comes to human sexual wants; many of which presumably go unmet in the real world.
Christianity- A Failing Industry In the West
Now juxtapose this reality (that of pornography as a productive enterprise with a vast and growing global followership) with that which is embodied by the world of religion. One of the (many) things that Christianity does NOT have going for it present times is the demand for its spiritual “goods and services”: From collapsing church attendance, aging followership in most parishes, to the consolidation of its many dioceses in much of the West, owing to the progressive drop in followers. Combined with the growing alienation felt by the young towards organized religion in general, notably their general unease towards religious dogma. All of which points to the underlying issues that afflict the world of Faith in the West: Which is the poor perception it commands amongst the masses. Especially the youth.
Most notable here is the steady rise in the percentage of NONES: The, now many millions, who no longer profess faith in God, via the framework of organized religion. A point often celebrated by militant atheists, but it’s an undeniable and problematic reality from the standpoint of the health of religious faith (17).
Leaving aside those who hold the popular ‘I am spiritual, but not religious’ tag, the slow collapse of institutional faith (Catholicism being a notable example) in much of the West, along with the general disregard for the Church’s teachings on the moral question (notably on sex); are indications that people no longer value what the Christian Faith has to offer. At any level. Meaning, that purely from a PR standpoint, people no longer consider the teachings of religion on sex, life, and morality to be worthy of their time. Besides finding them to be cumbersome hurdles that undermine freedom, they don’t promise anything positive, joyful, and needless to say pleasurable in the here and now.
This is not to say that the teachings of the Church on such matters are necessarily evil or wrong. Morality is not the output of democracy. Just because the majority thinks that something is no longer problematic does make it so. However, the problem with religious morality lies with the kind of world that has come to be embodied by the religious: That of Churches, prayer groups, religious congregations, youth fellowships, etc. And what these imply and communicate to the rest.
For the modern Western mind, these constructs are believed to have little to nothing to offer as far as the wants, hopes, and aspirations of the individual person. Especially the young, educated, connected, modern souls: The Googling; YouTube, Netflix binging; smart technology powered generation. Who are economically independent (or at least wish to be), carrying higher aspirations than the generations gone by. Thus who simply don’t have the time for such moralizing, and generally view such teachings as repressive forces, that seek to curtail the human spirit. The young, freedom-loving minds who do not wish to be subjected to the dictates of religious dogma. Especially those that related to the personal reality of sex.
The reality of the NONES exemplifies a deeper break between the youthful masses and organized Faith in the West. And what this represents is not fully understood by the religious apologists amongst us. The sort who believe that by going around preaching the Good News of Jesus; enlightening to them to the mysteries of Sacramental worships (speaking of the Catholic “new evangelization”), and by demonizing the material world (a favored tactic by evangelists) is somehow going to bring the sheep back into the fold (18).
From the standpoint of the growing percentage of the masses, namely generation X, Y, and increasingly Z, who believe there is little that is actually good about the Church, at any level; least of all, when it comes to its teachings on sex. It is high time the Churches and their representatives got real on what matters to this generation (and the many older and younger persons who think like them). For whom the things that matter are constant learning, personal growth, economic empowerment, and the freedom to pursue higher material and spiritual goals. Speaking of the latter, it is the spirit of a differing kind. Unlike the other-worldly spirituality touted by the religious.
So given this deep incongruence between the world of Faith (Churches, priests, bishops, dogmas, and doctrines), and the modern world: characterized by technology, thirst for personal freedom, economic independence, and self-fulfillment. It is no surprise that the Christian Faith’s teachings on sex, including prohibitions against the use of pornography, are generally ignored, or worse viewed as restrictions that have been purposefully placed to undermine the growth and expression of the human spirit. And they (we) have a point. For when the religious oppose such immoralities, they, in the process come to oppose the goodness that is embodied by sex. Sexual immoralities like fornication and pornography are viewed as a way for advancing man’s thirst for personal freedom and self-assertion. Realties that can be viewed as good by association.
Hence the Christian critic of porn, and of sexual immorality in general, whilst well-intended (to an extent) only adds to the bad PR the world of Faith has already built up for itself over the years with the young, modern mind. Given the extent of this disconnect between the religious, and the ‘spiritually worldly’; what is troublesome, is the inability (and unwillingness) on part of the cloistered faithful to see reality for what it is: That from the standpoint of those who indulge in the world of sexual immorality, there are other, deeper realities at work. And not all of them are, at least not totally, despite their outwardly immoral character, evil.
Returning to the idea of those who choose to lead a life that is spiritual but not religious: it is no longer simply a case of following a prescriptive equation of: ‘doing what is right’ and ‘rejecting what is evil’. For there’s more to the question of being a good person than it is to be able to lead a “sexually pure” life. Clearly. In the same light, there’s more to the idea of rejecting evil, than to simply stay away from sexual immorality.
These realities, in practice, take us beyond the simplistic understanding of human morality. One that views human action as a choice between black or white. The grey area that underlies most human decisions in the moral sphere needs to be considered. Hence what is needed, is a more nuanced, sophisticated understanding of life and morality, especially in relation to sex. One that views this drama as a necessary combination of the good and the bad, at varying degrees. Something which, in the context of pornography, and, interestingly enough, even the religious, goes beyond the subject of choosing between good and evil.
Pornography: A Manifestation of Human Sexuality
Everyone likes sex. Wait, let me correct that. Everyone who is healthy, and values joyful, active physically fulfilling relationships, likes sex. Sex is natural. Sex is important. Sex is logical. Sex is beautiful. Sex is human. Truths that are often ignored or downgraded in importance within the religious worldview.
Since pornography is fundamentally about sex, in case the obvious is missed, it must be commended for getting this basic facet of life right. More or less. The graphic representation of sex, under a ‘lights, camera, action’ framework, means that it is clearly sex of a different kind. A glamorous one; at least it tries to be. The kind of sex on show: the legal kind, in case this needs to be reminded, and excluding the weird/fetish types, and other “exploitative” genres (so many that are out there these days).
What we are talking about when it comes to porn, is the presentation of sex that is visually-for the lack of a better word-stimulating. The sort of sex that covers the basics: From the slow build-up, titillation, foreplay, followed by the main “event”. But besides the obvious elements of human intimacy, porn does cover a number of things that hinge on and/or give rise to the actualization of real intimacy.
To understand this, it is worth engaging the distinctions between softcore and hardcore pornography. Whilst there’s more to adult content than what these simplistic categorizations imply. But essentially the kind of adult content that does not involve penetration, along with a dedicated focus on human genitalia, falls under the ‘softcore’ range. As for what’s on show at the other end, ought to be self-explanatory. And these differences matter for a variety of reasons. For one thing, softcore porn tends to verge closer towards erotica (i.e. kind of like Playboy, and Penthouse during their heyday). Whilst the hardcore version, with its singular focus, often draws the vilification porn critics: from censors, feminists and religionists.
However, the two versions of porn are united in their fundamental affirmation of human sexuality. This affirmation however lustfully conceived, profit-oriented in intent and unethical in practice, yet the fact that it manages to command a certain kind of appeal with the masses, like hundreds of millions of people, is a testament to its underlying goodness. To have sex is a good thing. To have sex on screen for the world to see, whilst not ideal, and immoral on many levels, nonetheless carries a certain positive quality. And possibly a celebratory one. Considering the fact that even celebrities are getting in on the act. With the musician and entrepreneur Kanye West, on Jimmy Kimmel admitted that he still frequents the largest free porn site in the world. This coming from a married father of four, and billionaire is telling (19).
To have sex, whilst having it not accompanied by shame, guilt, remorse, and regret that is often associated with it, is made manifest in adult content. In contrast to the religious view on sex where demonizing human intimacy, notably the sexual impulse, has become the happy pass time of many religionists. A reality that most people wish to get away from. Thus one can argue, that given this heavy does of anti-porn (and underlying it anti-sexual) hysteria and dogmatism that underlie religious life, it is natural that people are seeking outlets that are more sex-affirmative. And given the state of our society (yes even the increasingly irreligious West) what is on offer in the world of adult entertainment is a path of sexual escapist fantasy. An argument made in this essay is that this sexual escapism presented by porn is not too bad a thing, to an extent.
On the subject of “pornstars”; whilst the actual emotional states of the performers (during, before, and after) is impossible to discern. For the duration of the time, portaging the unfolding performance of two (or more) people engaging in a very pleasurable, very human, very satisfying act; and to do so, fearlessly, is a positive. The open affirmation of sex, however unethical, immoral, Sinful can be considered as good, in relation to what it does not represent. Think of it this way, in a world where a lot of people are riddled with sexual inadequacies, aliments, fears one sort of the other, the reality of porn can be seen as a liberating force.
Considering the many sex-related phobias that are out there: from genophobia (fear of intercourse); erotophobia (fear of sex and eroticism in general). To which one can add a host of other related conditions. Androphobia (fear or dislike of men); Gynophobia (fear or dislike of women); heterophobia (dislike of heterosexuals and heterosexuality). And we’ve all heard of the latter’s opposite. To which one can also throw in asexuality. A state of mind (or disorder) that is gaining wider recognition (20).
It seems to me that aversion towards sex at any level, yes, that means even the spiritual (i.e. on grounds of following one’s vocation), points to a deeper disorder within the body and/or mind of the person in question. Returning to the point about the vast, global demand for adult content; part of the explanation for this huge level of public enthusiasm can be accounted for by the unmet sexual urges, recognized or unrecognized, by individual persons. Which functions as a repressive force that plagues much of humanity. Particularly the male half of it.
The idea of pornography as an unhealthy outlet for one’s sexual energies, a source of escape from reality, whilst valid criticisms. However, these only reinforce the fact that much of humanity (based on the billions of hours collectively spent online on erotic content), that there is a deep urge for sexual fulfillment. One that is going utterly un/or inadequately met in the real world. And in the face of this challenge, the religious critic of porn has nothing to offer as a solution.
In the face of this ‘mass-psychology’ of sexual dissatisfaction, one may call it, and all that the religionists can do is to condemn the outlets that deal in servicing the demand for unmet human sexual urges and to cast out these deep seated human desires as immoral. Or worse, to demonize human sexuality and the desire for intimacy under the heading of lust (a terribly ambiguous word). As something that results from the temptations brought forth by Satan’s incubus and succubus underlings. However, these very unmet sexual urges that when they go unmet for prolonged periods, mutate into urges that foster the demand for porn, prostitution, and the raunch culture more broadly. And within relationships, infidelity.
An indisputable fact of life is that many, possibly most people in the world have genuine problems when it comes to leading a healthy, satisfying sexual life. A reality that has many cultural, social, psychological, physiological, and possibly spiritual origins, and consequences. Many crimes in the world are of a sexual nature. And sexual crimes can logically be traced back to unmet sexual urges and desires. In the case of porn, which is offered as a substitute: a sex substitute that whilst being a weak, and lousy one in contrast to the real thing. But nonetheless, it is potent enough a drug for the human mind to feed off. Which many are content to do. Why? For it is a drug (that consumed as a non-addicted-as I shall explain) that gets many things right. One of which is the visual presentation of sex. The presentation of sex in a generally affirmative light.
Look at it this way. Sex, when it is presented on screen rarely comes with the kind of guilt that is often associated with it in real-life encounters. A problem that can be traced back to the religious heritage of many. Those who have been on the receiving end of pontification against the evils of “sexual immorality”. The states of mind, one would presume animates many a radical or extremist. So when one considers the reality of porn: That of two (or more) healthy persons (at least on the outside) engaging in a healthy expression of their sexuality: one that involves consent, a desire for intimacy, at varying levels. Which again depends on the pornographic genre in question.
For in erotica, and more recently in “female friendly” content, one finds the celebration of human sexuality, visually. At least a commercial attempt to create such a reality. Notions that are furthest from the world of the religionists. Whose overt preoccupation with sexual morality, as opposed to sexuality, is one that invariably regresses to a chastising mindset: Where teachings on chastity, condemnation of premarital and extramarital relations, and in more recent times, the critic of pornography abound. All of which can be traced back to, not a commitment to the truth about God’s teachings on sex and morality, rather these are the manifestation of a deeper unease, problems, complications as it relates to sex.
The impression I get when listening to many of these religious moralists who go around talking about the evils of human sexuality, actually have a hard time viewing sex as good in itself. To view human intimacy as an act that is devoid of any baggage or stigma attached to it. The many burdens placed by culture, religion, societal norms, and to say nothing of the developmental anxieties that many, if not most humans undergo in their formative years, that which invariably affect their future sexual lives. The sort of burdens, anxieties, and inhibitions that are non-existent in the fantastical reality of on-screen sex.
As the various burdens of life that people bring into the reality of intimacy, those which, potentially at many, unknown levels, impede the complete enjoyment of sexual relations, Which in the context of porn, are left outside. Interestingly enough, this is probably one of the reasons why a considerable number of people as a percentage (again predominately men), despite being in an active relationship, continue to consume adult content (21).
Whilst the artificiality of the kind of sex that is presented on-screen is undeniable. Nonetheless, it is its very artificiality that makes it appealing. The representation of sexual intimacy in such a glamorized or simplified (i.e. without the bells and whistles of a relationship) form, makes it more desirable to consumers. Porn today hence has become a cultural force, that many don’t want to admit. One that draws in hundreds of millions of people daily into its world. A number which no doubt includes a lot of those religious stiff necks who have made it their vocation to condemn it.
And speaking of Christian circles, where the idea of sex is hardly ever engaged directly; and what is often passed off as ‘sex-talk’, essentially boils down to sermonizing against the evils of “sexual immorality”, and in the same breath praise the importance of marriage and family. Since the reality of sex, as something that is good in itself, is almost never engaged, what is thrown around instead are the burdensome realities of marriage, family, and continence. That become drab euphemisms to the goodness embodied by the real thing. Whilst disputing the religious view that sexual relations attain their most profound meaning within the marital framework. However, given the extant, death-like character of modern religiosity (more on this below), such talk in affirmation of sex, however well-intended, comes across, basically as a turnoff. And ultimately achieve little in engendering a positive view of sex or of God.
Which takes us to the atmospheric facet of porn. What is appealing about pornography is not just the sex alone, but also the manner in which sexual intimacy and erotica are presented to the viewer. Once again, this is highly dependent on the production value, and genre of the adult content in question. But provided the content in question is of a higher production value; in such instances what is often missed by the critic of the evils of porn, is the process that goes into producing it.
The thought, the planning, the investment that goes into good quality porn (if that sounds like an oxymoron-just bear with me) are worth considering. Pornographic content that carries a sense of quality are those which, as a start, situate the sexual act in pleasant, stimulating settings: A place which contains external stimuli, the sort that feeds the rise and expression of passion, that help elevate the erotic experience beyond ‘the act’ itself. The ‘environmental dimension’ of sex, that porn seeks to get right: from the lustrous setting, rich backdrops; topped off with smoking hot performers. Who, if they happen to be your type (of females): hair color, body type, ethnicity, etc., elevates the potency of the sex on screen to a different level.
In other words, the sex that one finds in pornography, or better; the kind of pornographic content one searches for online, are the sort of sex one would also like to experience, or in some way be a part of, in the real world. That is to say, what you cannot get in the real world, porn is able to generate a fantasy version of it. The advances in VR are pertinent in this regard, with respect to the future of porn and human relationships (22). For the advances taking place in this growing branch of the adult industry, by taking advantage of this innovative addition to digital entertainment. This is a trend that if followed, appears to go beyond the extent limits of sensory stimulation into providing an erotic experience that verges on the real thing. Which in addition to potentially reinvigorating a stalling source of excitement, the challenges the adult industry is facing given all the freely available content that is out there. Portends to cast a greater effect on those who use them. Problematically, on the personal relationships of those begin to habitually indulge in them.
The key point here is that the desirability of porn is one that extends beyond the sex act, and enters the realm of experience. Adult content makers are no longer just in the business of making sexy content for users, but their aim is to generate a sexualized reality, that stimulates the intended audience in more creative ways. Sexually and sensually, of course. But also in more complex ways.
For example, the growth in porn subscriptions, with premium content being incorporated into the services, even of certain free streaming sites, are indicative of the need for finding new ways for monetization on part of content producers. But also the growing demand for high-quality content. However the addition of the “HD option” is just the starting point. For speaking of VR, there is clearly an added investment (VR headsets, related add-ons) that goes into it. One which can be further accentuated with more technologies (e.g. pressure suits that hone in on parts of the anatomy). Supplemented by specific content that can exploit these advances.
Further, the rise in “female friendly” content: that seeks to accentuate the element of sensuality in sex, by incorporating romantic elements, and by giving females on screen greater agency, are interesting developments. Meaning that porn, for all its focus on the raw reality of sex, is also learning. And possibly it (i.e. the collective conscience of the industry) is beginning to approach the question of sex with a certain level of humanity.
A point can be made that the desirable character of adult content is owing to its ability to meet the variegated sexual needs of men. Sometimes problematically. But, given its relationship to technology, which is an evolving one, combined with the need for porn to operate like any other industry: to respond to the demands of the consumer. For porn, like technology, develops in accordance with the growing sophistication of the human mind, and the more complex that wants that accompany its ascendance.
Hence the idea of on-screen sex as one that moves beyond the mere graphical presentation of the act, to the addition of newer, more stimulating, creative, and artistic elements, can be seen as steps in the right direction. Quality pornographic content, that seeks to depict the kind of sex that is visually, and psychologically pleasing or possibly captivating, means that the producers are seeking to stimulate the human mind in ways that go beyond sexual arousal.
It becomes a fantastical sexual theme park for the mind: A fantasy world where one can escape into, and be free of the inhibitions of restrictive dogma and petty morality that govern, what is, for the most part, a sexually repressed society. Pornography not only involves the visual presentation of sex, but rather it is becoming the medium through which sex in the visual (and now increasingly virtual and augmented levels) is celebrated. The glamorization of human sexuality on screen. This takes us to the next element that porn gets right: Its beauty?!
Pornography: A Celebration Beauty
To speak of pornography as something beautiful is a tough ask. For when engaging this visual medium, particularly the hardcore variant, which is the main type of porn (there’s more than one) under which sexually stimulating content one encounters online tends to get categorized. This is unsurprising. Since critics of porn, who as noted, tend to be people who are uncomfortable with sexuality in general.
Hence find it convenient to bundle the whole erotic enterprise under the heading of admittedly crass, vulgar presentations of human sexuality that one encounters within the hardcore genre. The “graphic” character of hardcore pornography, in addition to its overt genital focus, also presents sex in an emotionally disconnected light: Where the beauty of sexual intimacy is purposefully presented in a way that is disconnected from the relational dimension that it is often structured within.
Given this state of affairs, it is understandable why observers, religious and secular, tend to adopt the moral (i.e. critical) route in assessing the character of adult content. Given the inherently controversial character of hardcore pornography and its dominance in relation to other forms of adult content, that adult content collectively is often judged from the standpoint of being as something good or bad, in relation to what the person or group in question thinks of the hardcore variant.
However not all porn is of a hardcore character. And even those that fall into this category, manage to do a few things right. Which is what partly drives their appeal. Hence a deeper study of this phenomenon will reveal that there’s more to the world of erotic entertainment than what is embodied by hardcore content. However, the problem people have with porn is a more complex but also a simple one. Which also needs to be considered.
In case it needs to be mentioned, is vilified in almost all societies, at least at the level of mainstream culture. Which is fundamentally due to its alien character. The fact that people don’t have sex in public, or have sex as a source of stimulation for third parties, contributes to its alienating character. Sex is a private thing. Which is treasured for its personal, relational, and depending on the relationship, its exclusive character.
So when human intimacy takes place out in the open, for the world to see, and in a graphic, and seemingly (depending on the kind porn in question) exploitative way. It raises valid concerns. The least of them are aesthetic ones. Whilst the main criticism that is directed against porn are often, and rightly, of a moral, or if the need arises, legal character. The unpleasantness that one may associate with porn owing to its lack of artistic value is going to be a far-fetched concern.
If the aesthetic dimensions of pornography if it is ever raised, it will only be in the context of its negative, unpleasant, gross, and potentially dehumanizing character. And with good reason. Whilst sexual intimacy is a treasured aspect of human life, not every aspect of it is worth familiarizing oneself with, at least not visually. For despite the widespread availability and use of porn, the hardcore variety of this form of digital entertainment, necessarily engenders a degree of unpleasantness, owing to its purposefully graphic character. The sense of unease that people feel towards pornography is primarily in relation to the hardcore type. A point that is especially true of women. They not only consume less porn on average but also tend to have different erotic preferences. Needless to say the less-hardcore variety.
The reasons for this are numerous. One explanation is that women have an arousal mechanism that works differently from that of men. Akin to the development of romantic interest, sexual arousal for women, works a bit differently. Women have different tastes when it comes to sex, but preceding that, their approach to relationships, also differs.
Leaving aside politically incorrect talk about sex differences (much of which, seeks to downplay their reality), it is obvious that women develop the desire, generate passion, are stimulated differently to that of men. And when it comes to intimacy, from foreplay to orgasm, things don’t follow a straight line. As Oscar Wilde put it well in his famous novel, spoken by a female character: “We women, as someone says, love with our ears, just as you men love with your eyes, if you ever love at all”. Safe to say, in hardcore pornography, there is very little love on the show. But that does not mean that pornography as a whole is devoid of the beautiful. Yes, even the hardcore type.
So when it comes to porn, the age-old adage that men are stimulated visually, whilst women have turned on aurally (at least at the start) is a point that is applied, and mutated to a monstrous degree in the world of adult content. Conversely, the general disinterest men have towards romance novels (Twilight anyone?) is matched by a level of unease, or at least disinterest women have towards pornography. Predictably the hardcore ones, place little to no emphasis on romance and sensuality (23).
For speaking of the sheer volume of pornographic content available, much of it spread across sites that “specialize” in certain specialties, it would be difficult to identify and then classify the kind of content that qualifies as ‘beautiful’. So where does one find beauty in pornography? My answer is that the beauty in porn lies in its attempt to visually celebrate human sexuality. And to do so by employing financial, human, and artistic resources to develop and present a stimulating reality to the masses, who based on the mass consumption habits, render a form of social validation, to not just porn (i.e. the sex on screen). But to factors that correspond to, knowingly or otherwise, to the element of beauty, that it embodies. Whilst sex and stimulation are clearly the main focus, the pornographic enterprise is able to convey something meaningful, via the sexual, one that corresponds to the beautiful.
The fact that adult content is set within numerous genres, with character and quality of the final content differing from site to site; paid vs free content, etc. This indicates there is a hierarchy in terms of quality and presentation, in addition to the various differences in genres. Something which the viewer is seeking. He is seeking not just visual crass stimulation and gratification, but something particular. Something beautiful. The beauty of sex? Which is a good starting point.
Since returning to my first argument in defense of the goodness found in porn (not that porn is good): Is that porn is fundamentally is about sex. Since sex is a good thing. A natural thing. And if you’re Christian, a gift from our Maker. Hence it should come as no surprise pornography, that at the very basic level, is able to capture some of that fundamental beauty that is inherent to human intimacy.
Consider sex in real life. There’s something empowering not just about the act itself, but the moments that lead up to it. Men, being the drivers of relationships, and of the sexual act. Where the onus naturally falls on us to lead, at all levels: From approaching her for the first time, communicating interest, conveying intention; setting up a date. Investing time to build the relationship etc.
The progressive development of trust that leads to intimacy is a process where men take the lead. Realities, which owe their origins to the fundamental sex differences between men and women, which are genotypic in origins, and how they manifest themselves in the phenotypic sense. Which in turn works into different arousal frameworks. And the range of positive and hopeful sensations that connect with sexual intimacy is beautiful in its own right.
So when the feelings that work into the equation of passion and sex are presented in graphical, but often, in an exaggerated form in porn. Often in a way where the essence of intimacy and passion is ignored. Nonetheless, the fact that porn is fundamentally about sex, these positive sensations that we experience in relation to the act are felt, are evoked. This is why certain types of adult content actually take time to flesh out the “relational” aspect that underlies the act. However shallow and superficial these may be.
At this point, the key distinctions between softcore and hardcore variants must be considered. As noted, the ‘softcore’ version (i.e. no penetration) takes on a more sensual, relational approach (at least it tries to). One that, somewhat logically leads towards the affirmation of sex, not solely in its biological, or functional character. But one that is engaged with greater consideration for the wider reality in which the sex is situated. Just like taking a girl out to a nice place, rather than a lousy one, increases the chances of the date going better.
Capturing human intimacy in a setting that is oriented towards comfort, relaxation, and a general air of positivity, underpinned on something meaningful, like a connection between persons, enhances the intimacy that follows. So porn at a certain level, when it tries to capture the sensibilities and expectations that work into human intimacy produces something, as far-fetched as it may seem, beautiful. The beauty of young attractive women. The beauty of two persons in love (manufactured no less). The beauty of sexual intimacy being played out in a wonderful garden-like setting… Sex in Eden perhaps. You get the idea.
To get into the mechanics of porn. When speaking of adult content, which usually involves decent-looking people (at least the women anyway); who, importantly, look good naked. Whilst it is easy to dismiss this as something insignificant, owing to its obviousness (not to mention Sinful). A key point that draws people, especially men to porn is the opportunity to see young, beautiful, naked women (surprise surprise!). But there is more to it.
One of the incentives for tuning into adult content is that it gives the viewer the opportunity to see hundreds of pretty, young, naked women, in positions, states, and environments that are arousing, yes; but also, how can I say, welcoming. What’s attractive about pornography, in terms of its portrayal of women (including the hardcore version), is its simplicity. Where women are presented as beautiful sexual creatures. Nothing more or less. Whilst clearly not the most ennobling presentation of the female half of humanity, it is nonetheless an appealing simple one. In addition to the sense of abundance, one feels in the presence of so much beauty. A far cry from the drab (sexless) character of everyday reality.
For female nudity, in addition to its arousing character, also stimulates the mind in different ways. The presence of feminine beauty (in a sexualized form), in adult content, not only is a source through which the mind to satiate its craving for sex, but also as a means (albeit an inadequate one) for the company of pretty, young, naked women. Company of women. Which is a slightly different demand from the need for women for the sake of sex.
The females presented in adult content are those who come without (or at least presented as) baggage, or complications. Whose sole defining character is their sexuality. Whilst this notion will be quickly dismissed as the objectification of women (and rightly so). It is important to note that when it comes to sexual intimacy, the singular focus on a person’s sexuality (i.e. how good they look, how good they are in bed) is quite natural. It is the “objectification” of the other that drives, at least initially, the force of passion. And porn, in its overt simplicity, tries to, and for the most part succeeds, in capturing this.
As all healthy men would attest, there comes a time in the day or week, when all other matters have been put to rest (more or less), what really comes to dominates our mind is the need for sex: Which translates, more broadly for the want of the company of hot, young women. An urge that is profound in its simplicity: ‘I want to be intimate with a girl. A girl I find attractive and desirable. So what matters is that I find such a specimen, in order to satiate this urge. In the meantime, everything else can wait. Of course, when it comes to actually going about meeting this need is where things differ.
As some men are simply better able to meet their sexual/intimacy needs than others. What is key here is that all men feel this way. But not all are able to satisfy their urges always. At least not satisfactorily. And this is where the demand for porn sets in. However, consider that what men seek in these moments is not just intercourse. But they (we) are seeking the whole package. Women yes. But also the beauty that is embodied in the sexual power of feminine beauty.
When the demand for sex in its totality is not met in a timely and satisfying manner, porn becomes a logical refuge. For by satisfaction it is not simply the primal urge to orgasm, that is played out on screen. There are other, one could say, more intellectual, and aesthetic concerns that relate to the sexual, which draw men to this medium. Things which actual relationships with real women may not able to meet. As noted, men in sexually active relationships also consume porn, including married ones (ibid).
Hence, pornography, at one level needs to be understood as a logical getaway, not only in terms of a way of meeting unmet sexual urges. But as the search for deeper sexual self-fulfillment, that goes beyond foreplay, intercourse, and climax that one may get from a normal sexually active relationship. For even then porn can still command a certain appeal in the minds of men. And one of the reasons underlying porn’s appeal, even when the basic need for sex is met, lies in its artistic character. That is its ability to stimulate the human (particularly the male) mind in ways that go beyond the search for arousal, stimulation, and orgasm. One that impinges on the search for sex that has, that carries a deeper level of stimulation.
Next, consider the recent growth in “female-friendly” adult content. The growing interest in (or maybe there always was) adult content that is more female-empowering is an interesting development to consider in relation to the subject of beauty in porn. Since sex in porn has historically existed to cater solely to male urges. With the content essentially excluding female perspectives and expectations. Male sex drive is a direct one: in that, it is primal and simplistic: a point that is unromantically captured in the hardcore arena, which is very male-centric. To a point where the idea of romance, and sensuality are almost totally removed. Hence the historical criticism against it, as something that portrays women in an unbefitting light. Simplistic is probably a better word. But the critic is valid.
However, since reality does not work that way. Hence pornographers are working to portrayal a more female-empowering view of sex on screen. And that’s not a bad thing for more than one reason. I would posit a key reason underlying the rise of “female friendly” adult content, is that in addition to facing up to the critic of traditional hardcore content: on the lack of agency with which women are portrayed in sex; is that by affirming a female perspective when it comes to sex (however simplistically), it opens the door to the understanding and presenting the beauty of intimacy in a, dare I say, more wholesome light. One that, hopefully, brings the medium in terms of its representation of sex, closer to how relationships work in the real world. One where a degree of time, effort, and commitment on part of stakeholders precedes intimacy.
The rise of feminism in popular culture also has had its effects on the adult industry. If not in fighting for the banning of such content on sexist grounds; it has been vocal in calling for more ‘positive’ representation of women in adult content. The growth in ‘female friendly’ content, which finds itself as a variant within the hardcore category, presents women with greater sexual agency, whose individuality is valued. Who are persons first, and are viewed as more than simply “sex objects”.
A point that is reinforced by the growing presence of female directors of adult content. Who seeks to provide a different, more female-centric perspective to erotica (24). Kind of like what is happening in popular culture more broadly, where women are taking or being given more prominent roles. The Wonder Woman movies, that in addition to having a female lead, feature a female director. Though the idea of having “strong female characters” (a popular feminist trope in popular culture) in porn, if it’s to be found, is still likely to be aimed towards the satiation of the various fetishes of men. For no matter how empowered women are made to be portrayed in presents women with greater sexual agency, whose individuality is valued. Who are persons first, and are viewed as more than simply “sex objects”.
A point that is reinforced by the growing presence of female directors of adult content. Who seeks to provide a different, a more female-centric perspective to erotica (24). Kind of like what is happening in popular culture more broadly, where women are taking or being given more prominent roles. The Wonder Woman movies, that in addition to having a female lead, feature a female director. Though the idea of having “strong female characters” (a popular feminist trope in popular culture) in porn, if it’s to be found, is still likely to be aimed towards the satiation of the various fetishes of men. For no matter how empowered women are made to be portrayed in porn, the overwhelming consumers will remain male.
So when it comes to beauty in porn, one is made to look deeper. To go beyond-if it is possible-the obviousness of its sexual, and graphic character. For underlying the possible unpleasantness of (esp. hardcore) pornography, the medium, at a certain level, manages to do something porn, the overwhelming consumers will remain male.
So when it comes to beauty in porn, one is made to look deeper. To go beyond-if it is possible-the obviousness of its sexual, and graphic character. For underlying the possible unpleasantness of (esp. hardcore) pornography, the medium, at a certain level, manages to do something right. Particularly in terms of its ability to appeal to things that stimulate the mind, giving it what it seeks in the visual arena of stimulation.
This is why it manages to command considerable attention around the globe. And one of the reasons for this appeal is the aesthetic dimension of porn. Understanding it requires us to go beyond the simplistic Christian critic of porn, which studies it solely from a moral and sociological standpoint. The reason(s) why hundreds of millions of people are spending countless hours searching and watching adult content is because pornography is not only doing something right with respect to sex, but it is getting something right with respect to the beautiful.
Understanding Beauty in Porn
When it comes to porn, the good ones: those that carry a high (or higher) production value, there’s something, for the lack of a better word, ‘artistic’ about them. The way human sexuality is presented on screen, whilst no doubt varies depending on the kind of pornographic content (based on preferred categories). Needless to say, there are some weird ones out there. Such as the list of pornographic “genres” that the British government in 2014 decided to prohibit, a ruling that applied (or was supposed to-not sure what the law is like right now) to U.K -based pornographic content producers (ibid).
Leaving aside the outlandish urges that stem from the deepest crevices of the human mind, pornography proper: and here I can only speak of heterosexual sex: pornographic content that is aimed towards Straight men. Which, interestingly enough, includes a lot of ‘lesbian’ sex’: The sort that is made purposefully to titillate sexual fantasies of men, rather than presenting a more authentic characterization of what constitutes actual lesbian sex in the real world. Speaking of lesbian porn, it has become one of the most popular porn categories around. According to data released by the top porn streaming site in the world (which also happen to be in the top 50 most trafficked sites in the globe), “lesbian” is the top-ranking porn search category of all time (26).
Simply put, there’s something sensually and aesthetically (besides sexually) appealing about human sexuality, when it is being artfully presented on screen. And when it comes to artistic presentation, there is something inherently more sexually artistic about the female form than the male. That is when it is presented in a faithfully feminine, sensuous light, combined with intimacy. Which is most notable in erotic content makers who trade primarily in sexual imagery (as opposed to videos). Interesting to note, the winner of the “Nude Photography Site of the Year” for five years running, an accoladed handed out by the top authority in porn (for what it is worth), is a site whose name ended with the word ‘art’ (26).
The female anatomy, in relation to nudity, carrying an artistic significance is an old concept. One that was most celebrated in the ancient world. Particularly in the Classical era, with the goddesses of the Greek and Roman pantheon being notable figures that celebrated this ideal. A heritage that has continued to influence the West’s fascination with the human form: notably its visually striking character. One that is not only limited to the female form, that manifests themselves in the arena of the athletic, militaristic and erotic, to name just a few.
The image of the human form, portrayed in heroic and sensual lights, with subtle additions of sexual, at varying levels, to accentuate the message of the producer, is a notable feature of the Western visual style. One that continues to this day in various forms, from beauty pageants to fashion runways, is something that is quite alien to the Christian world.
The unease with the imagery of the human form that accentuates its physical character: as a way celebrating its strength, vigor, vitality, and heroism; and in context of the female form, one that lends itself towards eroticism are acute sources of discomfort for the Christian religion. One that goes back to the early Christian era, where the upstart faith was a catalyst in the destruction of Classical culture, at least in an artistic sense (27). A state of unease with not just sex, in terms of the act, but the wider reality of sensuality and eroticism that ties with it have never been a mainstay of the puritanical, other-worldly character of the faith. One that is more preoccupied with helping souls get to heaven rather than to help lead a meaningful, materially, and sexually fulfilling life here on Earth.
When it comes to pornography, broadly, what is one show is this man affirming character via the sexual. Manifesting itself in the most overt, explicit and one could say, in light of the male, in an almost heroic way. Whilst the female is always the center of the visual experience, the guy (in case there is one) is made to seem like a conqueror of sorts. The one who gets to (it is presumed) to get intimate with all of these women, is naturally viewed in an affirmative (or envious) light. As opposed to the ones who aren’t.
So the celebration of the sexuality of the feminine-which is beautiful-is juxtaposed with the “heroism” of virile masculine who has access to such beauty and pleasure. So in porn what one finds is the celebration of sexuality and by extension that of the human person in a way that is not found within the Christian experience. Returning to the point about the destruction of Classical culture during the early rise of Christianity, what replaced it: the Christian Churches and the artistic ethos it embodied was one that was pronouncedly devoid of the sexual. Or better, one that was determinedly opposed to it.
When it comes to pornographic content, there is a tendency to dismiss the sex that is presented on screen as vulgar and exploitative simply because it is sex that is being played out on screen. Whilst this criticism is broadly true, one must again focus on the quality content, and the deeper aims of the producers. In porn, often what is on the show is not just sex between x number of people, but invariably it is sex between/involving good-looking people. A point that is especially true of lesbian content. Which, like most erotic content, is intended primarily for men; and hence seeks to appeal to the highly tuned visual apparatus of the sex. One that not only seeks visual stimulation but also seeks a certain type of gratification that extends beyond mere titillation.
The ability of pornographic content to stimulate the mind in different, potentially profound ways is a point for consideration. To be inspired by porn is not an easily digestible notion when one considers the overall character of the enterprise. However, the value that is placed on the erotic, and the creative ways in which sexual intimacy is presented; ought to be apparent that what transpires on screen is not solely limited to the sexual act. But the presentation, notably in the context of the female form, is in a sexually celebratory fashion. One that is utterly lacking in the Christian world. For good erotic content engages aspects of human sexuality that extend beyond its reproductive function. It views and presents sex not just as a stimulating art for the mind but as a tool for the creative.
The power of the feminine that is captured by adult content sites, notably those that recognize its aesthetic value (i.e. that which goes beyond the act itself), do so by situating female performers in settings that stimulate that feel-good sensation, is more than just erotic. The women, besides being sexual on-screen, are also portrayed as playful, and lady-like… In an overt, almost purposeful way. These additions whilst clearly choreographed, seem all the more appealing owing to the fact that these are facets of womanhood that are increasingly harder to come by in the real world. Particularly in the feminist-dominated Anglo-American world, where much of the pornographic content for some reason stems from.
In the real world, and in popular culture in recent times, where all of the emphasis is on portraying ‘strong female characters’, who in their theatrical characterization-as an example-come across as masculine, domineering, inherently sexless (the females in the new Star Wars movies come to mind), and in a word ‘Bossy’. To be a bit cynical, the idea of “strong female character” seems like a synonym for promoting images of butch females, who are at a deeper level, passively homosexual (the non-porn/fantastical ones), and consider their femininity as a burden or worse, a curse.
When it comes to porn, particular those that place particular emphasis on the erotic, understand the value of sensuality to the erotic experience. It’s not all just about f******g, s*****g & l*****g. The presentation of women, notably in “lesbian” content, where young, attractive women are presented purely for what they are: Sexual creatures, who have the power to titillate the male senses, and quite are happy and liberated in doing so. Without a care for the politics of gender that paradoxically hurdles the sexual freedom of women in the real world. What is striking here is the contrast to the state of popular culture, with respect to the question of female sexuality.
If one looks beyond the reality of strip clubs, the legal porn, the so-called “hookup culture” and out-of-wedlock births, the West, particularly in the last decade or so has been moving away from its liberal (meaning personal freedom and agency) worldview towards sex. This is a much bigger topic that extends beyond the scope of this essay, but it is worth considering that young people are having lesser sex on average than around a decade ago. With a notable drop-off in sexual activity amongst young men (28).
And speaking of all of the chastity teachings that are all the rage within Christian evangelical circles and Youth Groups, it might gladden them to know that sexual activity among high school students in the United States, between 1991- 2017, has gone from 54 to 41 percent (29). Needless to say that these changes were hardly the result of more effective proselytization and Christian youth groups.
So in a culture that is increasingly less sexual in nature, it is understandable that porn becomes a refuge not of a more sexually affirmative world, one that favors men; but it also becomes a pro-aesthetic, and pro-sensual bastion that celebrates female sexuality, however incompletely. Providing something of a foil to the masculinizing character of women in popular culture and, speaking of the Anglo-American sphere, the real world as well. The popular “strong female characters” of our time: the likes of Jyn Erso (Felicity Jones), Rey (Daisy Ridley), Captain Marvel (Brie Larson)-a character that was historically portrayed by a dude-are determinedly non-sexual in character.
In addition to never getting down with a guy on screen these women are also attired, very purposefully I might add, in unsexy clothing. The need to have women in non-sexy attire, and by extension reduce their sex appeal has begun to infect the world of video games. With artistic changes (censorship) being retroactively applied to innuendo that featured in gaming classics such as Mass Effect (30).
However, when it comes to the pornographic world, the erotic content makers, who have managed to stay true to the feminine ideal of beauty and sexuality. Thankfully. The fascination of the human mind with the erotic, particularly in relation to the feminine, is not something that is going to go away. And it is the digital world of the erotic that seems to be among the lone few that uphold it.
A less pornographic example that engages this is the Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Issue. Which has, historically anyway, been a magazine that was non-pornographic in character. With hot girls presented in bathing suits. Things have changed a bit in recent years, with the Swimsuit Illustrated cover for 2015 featuring Hannah Davis causing some stirs. Interestingly, the Swimsuit Illustrated, in recent times has begun to portray its cover girls in an increasingly nude-ish way.
The girls, whilst still mainly in swimsuits, don’t mind shedding their tops from time to time, or in the case of Hannah Davis shoot, other parts of their attire as well (31). One of the captivating, elements that the architects of this magazine seek to incorporate into their sexy shoots, is the choice of the locality. Usually, the girls who feature in these magazines are invariably shot in exotic locations. With the models-with little-to-no clothing on-shot in a beautiful backdrop, with scenic nature, sunlight, (or ice) with a lot of glow surrounding the girl creating a warm, titillating, and sensual sensibility.
Interestingly enough, pornographers too seem to have caught on with this idea. The idea of adding a visually captivating element to the sexual is now an important element of adult content making. Whilst this has always been a feature of, one could say, more traditional erotic content makers like Playboy and Penthouse. Now, the hardcore-oriented content makers, it seems, are also starting to incorporate this element. As big-to-bigger budget producers seek to present on-screen sex in higher HD, and HD+ quality; the idea of combining the erotic with the scenic, natural, comforting beauty of nature seems logical. A reality that is underpinned by, and accentuated by the other key element in this framework: luxury.
Porn, the high-quality ones that are respectful of the feminine, can also be beautiful. Part of the titillation with porn lies in the initial stages: where the-until then-closeted sexuality of the female(s), is slowly, and artfully unveiled and set free on-screen. A process of escalating eroticism that is aided by the quality of secondary factors: From hot performers; sexy “set-pieces”. like a sauna, or on a sunny beach; and especially those that come with a “story”. An argument can be made that there is a growing focus on part of adult content makers to combine sex with the aesthetic. The artistic presentation of human sexuality, where the human, notably female anatomy is erotically presented, and paradoxically, despite its objectification and overt sexualization is nonetheless affirmed.
When it comes to the appeal of pornography, one must consider there are many factors at play here. The ‘world’ so to speak, that high-quality porn creates: from the external atmosphere that is conducive to human intimacy, to the beauty and femininity of the female performers are important in addition to the sex itself. Which indirectly becomes a source of titillation. And when the beauty of nature (e.g. a scenic beach or mountainside) is married with the beauty of womanhood; where the sexual energy of femininity and rejuvenating power of nature combine to provide a stimulating and uplifting visual experience.
For the intensity of the sexual act itself, whilst almost always without emotional resonance (the girls aren’t exactly hired for their acting qualities); however, the external environ, elevates a sexual state of mind. One that is not just about sex, but also about nourishing a feel-good sensation about life (The one that follows good sex.). A sensation, however fleeting and artificial is one that is universally desired and sought after. For it is not just the sex that is sought after in the fantasy world of porn, but it is the good life that appears to underpin this world of sexual abundance.
Think of it like this. What is better? Having sex in a dorm room, with the lights dimmed or off, with the pressure of study/work the next day. Or to go at it near a hot jacuzzi, set within a ten million dollar home, overlooking a scenic mountainside. With champagne and comfort food in waiting. Then ask yourself, for the average bloke, which intimacy scenario is the more realistic, given the difficulty in attaining the wealth and status that presupposes the actualization of the latter.
Now when it comes to art, a key facet is its unattainable, fantastical, or even otherworldly character. Art, good art, often is a reflection of an idealistic sensibility. That which cannot be had or experienced, by yet sought after and artfully celebrated. The universality of this sensibility, especially in the context of unwinnable love, is pertinent in this context.
The great German Philosopher Hegel was onto something (or many things) when he observed that: “The beautiful is essentially of spiritual nature; it is thus not merely a sensuous thing, but reality subject to the form of universality, to the truth” (30). Since sex is beautiful, and since porn, at a certain level, is the celebration of sex (when it tries to) and given the universal demand, not just for good sex, but a for the good life: characterized by the presence of wealth, status and the opportunities to express oneself (sexually or otherwise), one that is implicitly communicated in the fantasy world of erotica; means that pornography scores on each of these elements. And potentially even qualifies as something spiritual.
There is more to pornography than just being a medium for portraying erotic content: the sort that, in the most cynical sense, is a draw for sex-starved young men, who looking for an outlet to “express” their unmet sexual energies. At a deeper level, the broader appeal of porn is not one that can be simply reduced to its “core” characteristics. There are other aspects to pornography notably those which place a premium on quality, femininity, natural beauty, and the erotic dimension set within a world that communicates luxury. Which together is able to generate a new kind, higher appeal.
For example, a case can be made that pornography is a vehicle through which the artistic powers of the human mind find a new form of expression. A sexually liberating one. Pornography provides a new, though admittedly unethical platform from which creators (the experimental kind) are able to channel their artistic potential via the expression of female sexuality in a commodified form. One that is increasingly censored or downplayed in the real world and in popular culture, and is completely alien to the sexless character of Christian circles.
Pornography, as the visual presentation of human sexuality, can be considered an embodiment of beauty. Because sex is a beautiful thing. Whilst the Christian will argue, that sex is beautiful BUT only within marriage. However, the very idea of marriage as a precondition for sex seems like a necessary killjoy. And by sex, were are not just talking about intercourse. Sex, as I have sought to argue, is not just about the process that leads to conception. Human sexuality is a complex reality, that extends into the artistic, intellectual, cultural, and economic. Something that the Christian Faith at this point in its history is unable to discern. And the idea of beauty that the Christian Faith extols, is a different one. One that is necessarily non-sexual in character. And problematically so.
To close with the subject of ‘lesbian porn’, one needs to consider the state of mind of the females in relation to the question of beauty. From the build-up, the lure of the external setting, the state of mind of the performers (who seem to want nothing but sex-which is appealing in its own right). The girls who showcase their sexuality in a concertedly, one could say, lady-like ways, prior to proceeding to the obvious, are key factors that draw the viewer’s interest. Akin to the enduring appeal of Classical culture to the modern Western mind: In academia, politics, science fiction, art, entertainment, poetry, sports (Olympics), etc.
A point that cannot be made in relation to the Christian Faith. The femininity, and feminine sexuality of the female performers, which is central to the pornographic enterprise, is something that the Christian world has never recognized. Womanhood from a Christian perspective has not been understood beyond its virginal and motherly states. All of it embodied in the personhood of the Virgin Mary. Who essentially manifests the very converse of the sexual ideal of the feminine. This is not to say that I’m calling for the idolization of females as sexualized nymphs. Rather it is to say that the Christian world, notably in a more visually oriented Catholic one, is a world that is utterly devoid of a sexual reference point, in light of the feminine. One that affirms and elevates the sexual as true, good, and beautiful.
The Christian idea of Beauty: Devoid of Sexy
In my time following Christian content online, via the ‘new media’, a person that I have encountered from time to time is Bishop Robert Barron. Beginning, sometime in 2015, and for the next couple of years or so, I followed his work that hit on a number of cultural and spiritual subjects. Many that I found useful from an academic, and even spiritual standpoint. One of the things the then-priest, Barron, was renowned for, was his emphasis on the importance of the true, the good, and the beautiful when it comes to Christian (Catholic) evangelization. A point which the American Bishop routinely extolled, was that the Christian Faith, when understood in its totality, involved the near of the true, the good, and the beautiful.
In one such video explaining the importance of the ‘beautiful’ (he has a number of these in his YouTube channel), Barron uses a number of Catholic examples that are supposed to exemplify this quality/reality. Such as Chartres Cathedral, Sainte-Chapelle, and the persons St. Francis of Assisi, Mother Teresa of Calcutta, and the book The Seven Storey Mountain, written by the Trappist monk, Thomas Merton. According to him, the ‘beauty’ embodied in these things will help bring people to the Faith. A point well made. After all, the journey towards Faith is not a simple nor a straightforward path. The idea of accepting God is not always a logical one either. Whilst this is all good, his line of argumentation carries a big problem. A closer (or not so close) examination of these examples reveals that every single one of them is notably lacking one area. Have you guessed it?
Sex. In his list of ‘beautiful’ things the Bishop presents, the one thing that is notably absent is you know what aspect of life. Literally and figuratively. The first two mentions are Gothic-styled Cathedrals, which as places of worship, sex is a non-starter. St. Francis of Assisi, the lover of nature, and of life outdoors, was an Italian Catholic mystic: a person, who despite coming from wealth, and an apparent abundance of material wealth and opportunity for sensual indulgence, forsaken everything for God (i.e. chose a life of poverty, chastity, and obedience).
Mother Teresa of Calcutta was a celibate nun, who, as per the requirements of her vocation chose to live as such. In addition, her personal commitment to helping the poor and needy in the slums of India meant that she took her vows of poverty and the rejection of the joys of the flesh to another level. Thomas Merton, who wrote his famous book, following his adoption of monastic life (along with his conversion to Catholicism), spent much of his post-conversion life within the walls of a secluded cloister. Needless to say, there weren’t many young attractive women around to arouse temptation.
In other words, the embodiment of ‘beauty’ that the Bishop speaks of are deficient in one of the most central facets of human life: the sexual and by extension, the relational, and ultimately in the very thing that makes us human, our willingness and capacity for procreation. In case you missed it, folks, without good old fun time between a guy and a gal the precious Christian family that religious conservatives keep going on about will never materialize. Returning to his examples, each of the beauteous embodiments that the Bishop provides, only adds up in constructing a world where the very idea, not just reality of human intimacy is not only alien; but at a deeper level, reviled, and as a matter principle, and rejected. A world without sex, obviously. But critically, it is one devoid of the things that make the sexual possible. Notably passion, desire, eroticism, and, paradoxically, love.
In case the obvious is missed, in the real world relationships are the doorway to intimacy. Hopefully the good (i.e. the long-term oriented kind). Given the absence of the sensual dimension in Bishop Barron’s equation of beauty, it is also logically devoid of the many joys that stem from them. Sex, in case the obvious is missed, is not just an act. The manner and process in which human intimacy develops in relationships, and how they grow and mature are complex processes. For sex is invariably at the center of most (healthy) romantic unions. Unions, which are known cynically within religious circles as those which elevate the joys of “the flesh” to that of a more acceptable chaste, and effectively loveless one.
The word ‘flesh’, a word that is so demonized within faith-based circles, one may well be excused into thinking that all these coreligionists who employ it, are a bunch of ghosts who walk around in shells called physical constructs. One which they are called to perpetually detest, whilst being compelled to live in them. Interestingly enough, in my part of the world, Catholic priests and nuns are found in white clothing that covers them from neck to foot. Kinda like ghosts, validating their rejection of the carnality life.
The point is, Bishop Barron’s Catholic/Christian conception of beauty is one that is devoid of the sexual. Almost purposefully so. Which necessarily works to cut the person off from other humans, and paradoxically spiritual experiences. The demonized joys of the flesh, that from the standpoint of men, is embodied in the reality of young (healthy), attractive women, who affirm and are in touch with their feminine sensuality. The very thing that is actively opposed within the clerical framework. A reality that necessarily contributes to the emergence of this essentially warped view of beauty, advanced by the Catholic Church. One that the Bishop, and I’m sure, many other Catholic apologists like him, enthusiastically present to the world. One that most persons, as the empty pews in those beautiful but dying churches in the West would attest to, don’t find stimulating.
The HUmanism of Porn
It is no surprise the beauty captured by pornography, albeit indirectly, is the sort that finds its wider real-world manifestation in things like strip and gentleman’s clubs. Most notably in the Las Vegas-like dream setting characterized by wine, women, and wantonness. Finding their embodiment in a variety of outlets, that commercialize sex in a variety of artistic and innovative ways. The ethical and legal concerns that hang over the sex industry aside-a type of reality which can be understood as a rebellious reaction against the disempowering moral puritanism that has inhibited the sexual power of man, possibly starting from the end of the Classical era. Whilst Christian morals and teachings over the centuries, I am happy to admit, have played a key role in the shaping and development of the Western Mind and culture at large.
However, the overt sexual individualism that characterizes modernity, with its high emphasis on eroticism and sensuality is one of the hallmarks of the advance of the modern Western Mind (That is until the rise of feminism). A collective, one could say institutionalized manifestation of this is the raunch culture: A “culture” that curiously provokes the ire of sex-negative feminists and Christians alike. In the case of the latter group, the sexual act is viewed as acceptable solely within its institutional character, acceptable only within its marital and reproductive parameters.
Hence, sex as reality necessarily becomes closed off to the spirit of freedom, growth and creativity, and self-expression that is associated with the sexual. One that the sinful world of strip clubs, exotic dancers, porn stars, call girls, and more informally the arena of pick-up and seduction have come to embody. Whilst the immorality that surrounds these realities are indisputable, the goodness that is, paradoxically embodied within them is unmistakable.
In the context of the inherent opposition towards the sexual on part of the religious (indisputable at this point), this is a phenomenon that can be seen in the light of the decline of the Christian faith in the West and its weakening presence in culture and along with it, its ability to affect the life of persons. The reality of the weakened state of the Catholic Church and its overt preoccupation with sexuality can be understood, paradoxically, as one that is spiritual in nature.
The spirit of the Christian faith is one that is or has become devoid of the sexual. Whether this is what the true manifestation of Christianity as the Maker intended is another question. What is apparent however is the character of the faith today (i.e. its non or anti-sexual character) is a reflection of the image of the life that was led by the Founder of the faith. One that is based on the sparse (or better incomplete) presentation of his life that is presented of Him in Scripture. Which is a life devoid of not only sex but love, passion, desire, and the whole idea of man + woman relationships that we humans cherish.
In the pornographic world, whilst clearly devoid of the romantic dimension, and committed love that underlies a healthy expression of our sexuality. Its adult ‘spirit’ of pleasure and individualism are nonetheless affirmative of the human condition. All be it in an indirect (or very direct) way. Think of it this way, a medium that celebrates human sexuality, in a non-exploitative way (though in the context of porn this is very much open for debate-hence this essay), especially in an open, artistic manner (e.g pole dancing, nude art, erotic literature, and sex fancy positions, etc.) are all dipping into the pool of human creativity and then combining it our human sexual potential, manages to give rise to something synergistic and new.
Pornography as an enterprise and-if one wishes to perceive it as such- as an art form, that affirms and celebrates the connection between sexual freedom, individualism, and human ingenuity. Since porn manifests itself at levels that engage moral, intellectual, economic, and spiritual (albeit controversially) it means that it is doing something right. Recall here my point on Aquinas, on how certain acts which are immoral in nature are nonetheless pursued for the goodness that lies within them. In the case of pornography, the goodness that it encapsulates is not only sexual but also artistic and creative.
Creativity, and the spirit of independence that underlies it is one of the key characteristics of an increasingly individualistic society. Whilst individualism is not a fashionable term, within religious circles or on the left, modern life is fundamentally a person-centered, and hence person driven enterprise. The inability of the Christian faith to come to terms with this reality is one of the key reasons why it is losing ground in popular culture. Owing to the fact that the Christian religion’s goals and teachings do not always correspond to the individual person’s aspirations. Which are predominantly material and carnal, and are usually not limited to the moral realm, of the religious.
Human aspirations are multifaceted: economic, developmental, intellectual and by extension also sexual in nature (e.g. I have a girlfriend who is a solid 7.5. Now that I am getting better at the game, and since my income level has risen, I want a girl who scores a 9.0+ in the attraction scales). Such aspirations and yearnings simply don’t have time for the moralistic puritanism of a religious cult, with its 101 rules and regulations on sex and life. No matter how grand the promises of eternal reward or whatever the vague, and indiscernible conception of ‘blessing’ that characterizes the rhetoric of the religious.
The individualistic character of the modern mind is one that is necessarily opposed to the puritanical worldview where sex is viewed solely for its functional significance within a martial framework. Even if it is open to the idea of God, spirituality, and a life where does play a significant part. What underlies the religious moral puritanism, is its anti-materialism. This is arguably the more serious shortfall that underlies the worldview of the sexless, loveless, world-rejecting, and ultimately man-rejecting ideology of, speaking of the Catholic faith, a lifeless religion. In other words, the worldview of the religious (Catholic), based on its sexless notion of the beautiful, is an indication of its deeper anti-humanism.
The rejection of the Catholic conception of beauty as formulated by celibates like Bishop Barron naturally extends into the wide culture’s rejection of the Christian conception of the true and the good. Which is unfortunate, but understandable. For when one rejects the unpleasant range of teachings, and doctrines; which combined with its human manifestation (i.e. celibate nuns and priests), along with a visual aesthetic that is preoccupied solely with the transcendental.
What follows is the rejection of God as presented within the Catholic framework. So it is ironic that what the Bishop advances as avenues for engaging the modern, Western, individualistic (and porn indulgent-at various levels) mind: the beauty of the Catholic (and Christian) Faith; that when viewed from the standpoint of its aesthetically joyless (i.e. inherently sexless) character, it becomes the very source of alienation for the modern and especially youthful mind. A mind that values something different. A mind that values and seeks joy in passion, desire, eroticism, and luxury.
Pornography: A Celebration of Luxury
As I have sought to argue in the course of this essay, despite its many faults, pornography, at certain levels tries to and in some ways succeeds in capturing something good about human life. Despite its graphical focus on the ‘functional’ aspects of human intimacy; its ability to elevate the importance of the erotic, emphasizes the value of sensual pleasure, combined with an affirmation of the aesthetic, combined with elements of fantasy, that seeks to situate human sexuality in a visually stimulating environ, means that its appeal extends beyond the sexual act itself (31).
Pornography, owing to its openly sex-affirmative character, despite the many moral and legal concerns that bedevil it (and rightly so), can be, at a certain level, viewed as an ally of human sexuality, and by extension, man, who is after all sexual. Unlike the religious worldview, particularly the Catholic Christian one, which at present seems to stand in opposition to it.
However, there is more to the appeal of porn than the sex that plays out on screen. For adult content, in their presentation appeal to our innate desire for beauty, and our search for material comfort, all of which logically ties into the idea of leading an active and fulfilling sex life. And a life that is fulfilling in other frontiers. The very things which are strikingly absent within a religious, particularly Catholic clerical way of life. The appeal of material comforts like the demand for porn, should not be seen as an end in itself. Man’s yearning for luxurious living is something that is predictably reviled by most religions.
Notably (and unsurprisingly) by what I would categorize as highly religious religions like Roman Catholicism. A thought exercise: ever wondered why religious orders whenever they seek new recruits always insist upon trivializing, dismissing, and often demonizing the so-called “things of the flesh”. Such ‘things’ other being a euphemism for sexual pleasure, also qualifies as a back-handed critic and condemnation, of the soul’s inner want to pursue material success and prosperity in the real world. The very world of money, power, pleasure, and honor the faithful are supposed to forsake in its pursuit of “God”.
For it is this same loveless, joyless anti-man mentality that infects the works of the clerical class in their proselytizing mission. With messages that come heavily laden with world-rejecting rhetoric, advanced as high theology coming from persons who have supposedly “overcome the world”, but in fact are misfits who have yet to, or better have given up on the idea of confronting their inner demons. This is a topic for another time, but I’m beginning to suspect that many of these prophets who habitually preach against the evils of pornography, and what underlies it, the appeal of hedonistic living, secretly desire the very same things, but do not have the means or the know-how to attain it.
For when these religionists (a person who is addicted to religion) preach against the evils of money, power, and status, what they are really preaching against is what the possession of these logically entails: the access or greater access to higher, and better sources of pleasure. Look at it this way, if your aim is to get intimate with a Victoria’s Secret supermodel, the one best guarantor would be your bank balance: one that is preferably in the high millions. And I’m not implying that the girls who strut their stuff on the catwalks of London, Milan, and Paris are call girls you can hire for pleasure. Rather it is the simple logic that money, and status gives you access to the better things in life. Including the opportunity to meet, socialize and get things moving with the hottest babes around.
In the world of pornography what happens is that these pleasures (a lot of sexy, sexually available women), which are, for the most part, unattainable for many, are taken as a given. For example, if you’re idea is to convince two hot girls to come to your place, relax, frolic, then proceed to undress and then to start… It is taken as a given that you have the means to make them (i.e. to provide sufficient incentive) do so. This logic of course applies in various ways, at various levels in relationships as well.
It goes without saying that men who are wealthy and/or who have a higher social status-the two tend to go together-not only get to have more sex, they are often able to do so with younger and hotter women. Case in point: movie stars. With actors like Sean Penn (who is in his) dating and marrying women almost half their age. Whereas the reality is the very converse for our clerical friends. Notably, the Catholic ones who spend their life demonizing sex and pleasure, and from their standpoint, for understandable reasons. Sour grapes anyone!
You see the world embodied by Roman Catholicism, specifically that which characterizes the celibate lifestyles of priests, nuns, and others, not sexless per se, but rather unambitious people who presumably constitute the majority of those who choose to remain faithful to the creed. Whose affinity with faith is presumably a reflection of their own mediocre socio-economic status, and its logical correlation with uneventful, mundane personal (sexual) lives. Lives whose acceptable moral character is actually a reflection of the weak economic reality, and/or low social status.
Hence the moral goodness of their sex lives is fundamentally conformist in character. Needless to say, there aren’t many Wolves of Wall Street constituting the ranks of the Catholic faithful. For what is embodied by the morally acceptable lifestyles that define them corresponds to their state of material want, or at least one that is not defined by material bliss. Such a state logically works to undermine their sexual prowess. So the problem with the sex/man-rejecting theology of the religious is a circular one: The rejection of the economic and social dimensions that underlie sex, notably status; means that the dynamic character of sex, in its artistic, sensual, erotic, fantastical, and underling it all, aspirational levels are all ignored. Instead, sex is then naturally reduced to its social and reproductive function.
So it is from this state of material and sensual fruitlessness that the anti-material critic of money and status emerges. One that proceeds logically into the critic of sex, and by extension porn. Which, via the fantastical reality that it presents, presupposes the existence of factors that characterize enables it: the good things in life like money and status and the access to pleasure, and preceding that high-quality (young + attractive) women. The story of how Elon Musk met his second wife Talulah Riley (who was then a virgin) in a high-end club in London is telling in this regard.
Such opportunities are conspicuously absent in the world of the Catholic faithful, vis a vie the social status that characterizes those who come to embrace a Church-centered way of life. Where such beauteous realities, and the presence of the social power that presupposes them, disposes these religionists and their followers to revile and reject that which they cannot have; but given their extant socio-economic state, and the anti-aspirational, man-rejecting worldview that is being instilled into them, makes these something beyond the remits of their capacity to pursue, attain and experience.
To illustrate this point let’s look at a prominent Catholic figure who embodied none of the good things that most of us seek, but rather pursued, let’s say the Catholic, clerical ideal of poverty, chastity, and sacrifice. And was largely celebrated as an icon of the Catholic Faith.
A Catholic Icon of Poverty.. And Beauty?
One of the most notable public figures of the Catholic Church in the past century is Mother Teresa. The Albanian nun who carried out her missionary work in the slums of Calcutta India was a figure who was revered and respected across the world. A person renowned for her selfless life, as a helper of the poor, a messenger of kindness and piety to the faithful, a winner of the Noble Prize, and became arguably the most prominent face of the Catholic Church in her time.
However, owing to her public image she was a figure who attracted a great deal of controversy in relation to the character of her missionary work, and her views on poverty and sacrifice. She was the subject of strong critics from the likes of Christopher Hitchens (whose book on the Albanian nun, titled: The Missionary Position, I read through in one sitting). As these matters hit the news, new questions arose about the validity of her actions, including her very belief in God.
The controversies that have been associated with the Albanian nun at the moral and spiritual, and even legal level, whilst debatable (and I don’t mean that dismissively), what is undeniable, however, was her public image of humility and charity, and her embrace of a life that was characterized by, if not poverty, at least one that was utterly devoid of material comforts. Her message and example of service and sacrifice to the poor and powerless have, despite the many critics, lived on.
Her rapid elevation to Sainthood in 2016, enshrined for many, the spiritual authenticity of her life. A defining characteristic of her missionary work, it is worth reiterating, was its down-to-earth, workman-like nature. One that was, in a word ‘unglamorous’. The Albanian nun, besides being a friend of the poor (or a friend of poverty as some of her critics would denounce (32)), cast a very lowly, meek, and quite frankly, broken image of herself, and the world she was trying to help, to a culture (speaking of the West) that viewed life quite differently.
A key argument launched against her by critics (again most notably Christopher Hitchens) was that the Albanian nun was never truly intent on helping those she served: That is to direct her services in a way that would help extricate the needy out of their desperate state of physical and material want. Rather, she was more concerned about ministering to them, with the aim of, speaking of her “Home for the Dying” in Kalighat, helping them pass on to the next world, with the knowledge of their Maker instilled into them. And that this was the primary intent that governed the aims of her missionary work.
The locus of the critic of the Albanian nun is that her efforts essentially turned a blind (but conscious) eye to the physical and economic shortfalls that plagued those in her care. An accusation that runs into further problems, since the foundation she started in order to support her charitable endeavors, over the course of the years; as her popularity rose, raised hundreds of millions of dollars from donors from around the world. With that kind of funding at her disposal, serious help could have been given to those in need, in a more serious, systematic way. Healing them, educating them, and uplifting them. One that could have gone beyond the level of care, of what was essentially a hospice operation that she was overseeing.
Here it is worth mentioning a quote that is often associated with the Albanian nun: ‘There is something beautiful in seeing the poor accept their lot, to suffer it like Christ’s Passion. The world gains much from their suffering (33). Leaving aside the apparent masochistic undertones that pervade it, what this points to if I am interpreting it correctly, is that she was someone who viewed human joy in the material and sensual sense as problematic, and potentially as a source of evil. An argument that follows logically if one considers her selective affirmation of the Passion of the Christ (involving his suffering, humiliation, and death), rather than His powerful missionary life of healing, nourishing, and empowerment of the human person: in the body and spirit. To say nothing of the glorious Resurrection.
Returning to the world of porn, pornography, specifically the ones which come with high production value, the qualities of life that are extolled in them, albeit indirectly (for these are assumed) are the very converse to those which were celebrated in the ministry and life of the Albanian nun. Notably wealth, physical well-being (which presupposes good sex), social comforts (like good housing, provision of goods and services); access to opportunity (work and entrepreneurship).
And underlying it all economic power. And power, whether in the economic, social or political sense does not come freely. The pornographic industry, like any other profit-oriented enterprise, has to compete for attention, interest, and ultimately the money of paying customers. Hence it is in the interest of the pornographic enterprise to provide value. Value, in case this economic point is missed, is one that is subjectively determined by the masses, in terms of what is worth watching and/or paying for.
Leaving aside the profusion of free porn sites, many of whom traffic in a variety of, often subpar content, most of which on the face of it are a far cry from what is embodied by the term luxury. However, the underlying point in relation to the association between luxury and pornography relates to what pornography presupposes: The presence and underlying it, the importance of the pursuit of money and economic power. And tying all these together is the desire for social status. Which are best embodied by the ‘performers’, notably the males, who have it good in being able to bang all of these hot, young babes in a nice crib.
In relation to my earlier observation about sex, the higher social status (in men) the greater the chance of good, and more frequent sex. The pornographer realizes this sensibility, and the deeper yearning on the part of men for this ideal state, and so seeks to capture this fantasy via the visual medium and brings it to the market. This final product contains an economic value. And it is deemed to be valuable owing to the fact that many people (heterosexual men predominantly) are demanding it via the queries that are typed on major search engines. Often with the spent intent of viewing such content, and later, possibly paying for that which some would deem worthy.
Staying on the subject of search engines, keywords, and click-through rates; notably the sheer volume of porn-related keywords that are searched for online, and the overwhelming popularity of even a handful of free porn sites, these realities must be seen in light of the number of people in the world who are searching for the works and life of the Albanian nun, or of content related to Catholic life. Needless to say, there aren’t many people wishing to learn more by way of Google searches, or in the more traditional mass attendance of the graces of Sacramental spirituality, or the joys of clerical life.
Taking a step back, the growing disenchantment of the masses, especially the youth towards religious life, reflected in the decline in church attendance in the West, can be viewed as a reaction by this vast and growing group against the anti-materialism, and by extension, the anti-sexual character of the Church. Speaking of the Catholic Church, when you have an institution led by an army of celibates, the sort who do not or are not meant to aspire after the things that everyone else wants: power, wealth, and honor. It’s no surprise that people, especially the young develop a natural sense of alienation towards them.
Further compounding the problem for the Church are its otherworldly promises of heavenly joy and eternal reward, which again stand in contrast to the material joys that can be experienced in this world. Those which are indirectly reflected, or better glorified in the world of porn. I mean, being able to bang x-number of hot babes routinely is one thing, but to be able to do so in a luxury home, overlooking a night city is something else. (This is probably why all of these wealthy celebrities keep buying these luxury homes and other top real estate around the world. Guess they have a few other ideas in mind) (34).
For central to the world rejecting (i.e. material joy rejecting) character of the, in this instance, the Catholic faith is the perverse belief that luxury, and underlying it, the importance of material well-being are products of evil. This spurious notion of morality, one that is routinely advanced by these ideologues who claim to represent God’s will on Earth, is a consequence of very selective, or better-warped understanding and presentation of Christianity.
One that results from a selective reading of the true character of the faith. Where the pain and suffering embodied by the Passion of the Christ, rather than His Resurrection are extolled. In practice, this means that death, specifically the morbid realities which are tied to it: pain, suffering, poverty, sickness, senescence, and senility, and in sum, the rejection of our very humanity, are raised as the good and holy. As opposed to that which affirms the goodness of life: Health, Wealth, and status. All of which positively correlate with beauty and good sex.
In case the obvious is missed, one of the cruel aspects of death is its finality. For each of life’s negatives portend this evil. If the sole occupation’s of one spiritual life is with negatives (i.e. sickness, mental and physical hardships, self-denial, and sacrifice). Then death becomes the logical source of one’s fascination. This means the idea of a good life: comfortable homes, access to quality goods and services, opportunity to go vacationing to the globe’s top destinations, commanding a high-paying job, dating a hot girl, bedding beautiful women are ignored. Or worse, dismissed as evil. Contrarily, it’s such realities that directly or otherwise work into the human desire for betterment, upliftment, and joy. All of which presupposes wealth, and the desire for luxury. A reality that underpins the joy that high-quality porn indirectly affirms.
So what you have with representatives of Roman Catholicism, with people like Bishop Barron, in their elevation of characters like the Albanian nun, have made it their life mission to downplay the importance of human well-being in the material and sensual sense (35). Though what they are really doing is propounding a world rejecting the philosophy of life: One that is supposed to find joy and spiritual meaning in sacrifice, suffering, and mediocrity. A misguided message that further undermines the Church’s cause to spread the Good News of Jesus Christ. Unsurprisingly Bishop Barron is also a big fan of the Albanian nun: with a number of his YouTube videos dedicated to her. His woefully uncritical content on the founder of the “home for the dying” presents a predictably one-sided (positive) image.
Though according to her own personal writings, contrasting with much of the praises that are bestowed on her by naive attention-starved Catholic media, and apologists, ended up as a very miserable and ultimately faithless person. Who led much of the latter part of her life as quite agonistic, confessing to her trust of her joyless life characterized by spiritual emptiness. One that endured, despite her outwardly showy life of humility, sacrifice, and worship (36). So much for the argument that the rejection of money, power, and honor (and pleasure) leads to happiness.
So it is important to understand one of the underlying factors that drive the popularity of porn. The good quality ones particularly, in that they open the door to a world where not only hot sex (brought to you by a lot of beautiful naked women) and sensuality (not the same thing, necessarily) abound. But it is a world where the joys of material comforts and the access to a higher standard of living, and underlying it, financial strength and social status are taken as given.
In addition to the titillation, one derives by seeing two slim, fit, twenty-something brunettes go at each other inside a hot jacuzzi; it is able to combine the erotic with the idea of luxurious living, for which the sex and sensuality are integral components. Sex seems a whole lot better when it is set on a hill-top home that comes with glass doors, a penthouse, and possibly a tennis court. Set in a locale, overlooking a luscious scenery of trees and foliage. These factors taken together, in relation to health and status, come to command a deeper, yes, spiritual appeal.
The global appeal of pornography to the masses is one that goes beyond the need to get turned on by hot, quality women/sex. The factors that drive the mind to consume such content stems from something deeper, higher. Pornography, in addition to the obvious ‘qualities’ that it embodies, is able to engage and stimulate the human mind in ways that transcend the baser want for orgasmic sensation. This is a complex phenomenon that the moralistic, world-rejecting character of religions like (Catholicism), with their overt and misguided focus on moral dogmatism miss. For despite, or arguably because of its unequivocal focus on human sexuality, pornography is getting something right about the human condition at a deeper level. One that equally sex-obsessed religions (for opposing reasons) are unable to comprehend.
Why the Christian Critic of Porn Fails
Whenever I hear someone rail against the evils of pornography, which often tends to be these religious types, one of the two things comes to mind. One: the person raving against the evils of porn is either a heavy user himself, or is someone who is burdened with other sexual, or indirectly sex-related (usually socio-economic) difficulties. The problem people have when it comes to pornography, to use a philosophical expression, as a ‘thing in itself’, is a multifaceted one. That is to say, the basis of the antipathy or unease which is felt towards the reality of porn emanate from deeper, relational, psycho-social, or even physiological foundations. Foundations, that are in some way defected.
To understand the phenomenon of what could be described as the ‘hypocritical critic’ of porn, one that usually stems from a religious, on in this case Christian center, one must dig a bit deeper into the psyche of such persons. For starters, the frequency and awful predictability with which the “the porn question” is raised within Christian circles by preachers, evangelists, priests, ministers, etc., and the manner in which it is (dismissively) critiqued and belittled provides a reasonable basis for developing an explanatory hypothesis of this inclination. An inclination, given its banality, points to a pattern that underlies a state of mind that is not only opposed to pornography but at a certain level despises it.
A reality that points to deeper problems within the mind of the believer. Which in turn, if one chooses to follow the line of argument further, to problems within the character of with the religion in question. To understand this better, one needs to grasp the cultural matrix out of which the porn question/critic tends to be engaged within Christian circles.
If one has ever been familiar with the Christian life, involving Churches, Christian communities, congregations, prayer groups, etc. One would soon learn that the religious messages often come laden with prescriptive and prohibitory undertones. The emphasis on the moral dos and don’ts is never too far away from the mind of the evangelist. And with good reason.
For when it comes to Christian evangelization, the moral dimension is one of its central facets. The reasons for this are quite obvious: Teach people how to lead a good life, so as to avoid eternal punishment. So it is natural for those involved in announcing the ‘kerygma’ (the Gospel Christ) to the world, to instinctively lump together points on Christian morality, which invariably involves subjects that are related to sex and sexual morality, to the liberating message of Christ.
Here I recall an instance during a sermon where the priest (Catholic), a person of Maltese heritage, spoke about the importance of relying on God for our strength and comfort. And that by doing so, we need not have to rely on (Sinful) things like pornography, adultery, and fornication! (I’m paraphrasing). Can the reader discern the problem with his point? Whilst the importance of seeking and relying on God is well made (speaking of the Faithful).
However, this point fails to engage the underlying factors and forces that impel people to rely on such “sinful things” as opposed to relying on God. This simple-minded critic of porn and sexual immorality more generally is uneducated, and one-dimensional. Not only in terms of understanding the human character of this problem (i.e. the psychosocial factors that drive people to seek it) (ibid). But also, of the deeper spiritual issues with his life.
Meaning the problem with porn is not with pornography per se, but the Christian religion. Returning to the point about the overt moral focus on part of monotheistic religions like Christianity, the problem lies in their simplistic approach towards complex subjects like Sin, in light of the Redemptive function of Christ. A broad subject area into which questions about sexual immorality like porn works.
The Son of Man entered this world to liberate us from the power of Sin. Not to eradicate the world (full of sin and goodness) altogether. Yes, Christ did suffer and die for the sins of Man. But He did rise again in all glory. Whilst forgiveness for sins is central to the Christian faith, but the power of forgiveness presupposes the existence of sin. Sin, in the form of sexual immorality, for example, must exist for God’s Redemptive power to be operative. Thus humanity can never truly eradicate sin, sexual or otherwise.
In other words, there’s something dialectical about the nature of Christian Redemption. Sin is necessary in order to make the Redemptive power of Christ’s Redemptive role to be effectual. Matters which these single-minded, self-righteous, but most seriously, theologically illiterate religionists fail to consider, owing to their simplistic, hypocritical focus on sex. This pathetic spiritual state of affairs that is most manifest in contemporary Christianity’s evangelical emphasis on chastity (Hate this word). In terms of the predictable and pervasive promulgation of such teachings, are in fact reflective of a faith that lacks the capacity to and/or is unwilling to engage the deeper realities of human nature, in relation to questions of freedom, individuality, human aspiration, and spiritual growth. Realities that cannot be tied solely to a reductive moralistically determined conception of the Christian faith.
'Anti-Porn': The Mindset of the Sexless
Returning to the contributions of the anti-porn guru Matt Fradd; who was partly the “inspiration” for this piece. This Australian comedian wannabe/preacher has made something of a name for himself by going around talking about the ill effects of pornography. A few things need to be said on this point and person. The tendency to bash porn seems to be symptomatic of a broader disconnect between the Christian religion (i.e. those who espouse it) and popular culture. One in which a puritanical worldview regarding sex seeks to monopolize the Christian message to its selective will is not always on the right side.
Speaking of this holy Joe from down under, who also has written a couple of books on the evils of porn, strikes me as an embodiment of this problem at two levels: The individual and theological. The theological facet of the problem (of porn) is for another time; however, the characterological nature of this issue, and what it tells us about the problems with the Christian faith as a whole, is worth considering.
If one has ever been able to sit through this bloke’s excruciatingly boring, sanctimonious speaking sessions (and here I would encourage the reader to watch some of his talks on YouTube, there are quite a few). It soon becomes apparent, the person not only has a vendetta against porn-which he is clearly addicted to an inference that follows logically, given his overt preoccupation with the subject. Relevant here is his demonization of the Game of Thrones, which he considers to be “pornographic” (37).
Though what he is really saying is that after watching naked women prancing around on the screen (a common feature, during early seasons of the award-winning American show), impels him (and hence, possibly others) to go looking for the “real stuff”. Well if that is the case, then that’s his problem. Or his wife’s. The real issue with people who go around criticizing and belittling porn, it seems to me, is their poor/non-existent sex lives, and the fact that the Christian faith has little or nothing to say about it.
More seriously, it must be noted that porn consumption (i.e. now and then), should not be confused with porn addiction. Those who consume it habitually, and spend much or many of their waking hours thinking about it are persons, like most addicts, who have come to rely on it like a drug. And given, potentially hapless their reliance on it, tend to require larger and more frequent doses of it.
A case in point here is the people who access adult content in the workplace. In some cases, people have gone so deep down the road of porn addiction that they even claim the habit to be a “disability” (38). One argument that emerges in relation to habitual porn consumption-a is a pretty straightforward one-is that things clearly must be so desperate (or uneventful), speaking of the user’s sex life, that they need to seek adult content, even in a professional setting becomes irrepressible. Another explanation can be that, with respect to the workplace, that there aren’t any/enough hot babes around. Or the men who use porn, don’t have the game to get the girls they want.
Mr. Fradd, who is supposed to be married with children, strikes me as a boy who hasn’t grown up. He comes across as an uninitiated soul, a man who hasn’t really seen or done things that would qualify as a rite of passage facilitating the passage towards manhood. Which, in the real world means getting busy at some point in his life. Before tying the knot. In one of his videos, this bloke states that the first time he ever got busy in his life was with his wife. After the big ceremony. Interesting isn’t it.
The person who goes around preaching against the evils of porn, fornication, and masturbation-as these things tend to go together-is most likely a heavy porn user (or at best a recovering one). Who also happens to be a sexual novice. At this point, the question has to posed in all seriousness: Who in the world gave this loser (and hypocrite) the authority to lecture the rest of us about leading a good Christian life. Particularly in relation to sex and specifically pornography?!
Returning to my earlier point on those who are quick to dismiss pornography simplistically as “wrong”, “evil”, “immoral”. I would argue that these persons who are instinctively driven to speak against it, are not only in some ways affected, or secretly held captive to its reality. But when considering the extant attachment of those preachers to a belief system that has come to define itself, certainly in modern times, as a prohibitory force in relation to sex and relationships.
Taken together what this implies is their personal attachment to the restrictive character of these religious systems is one that is, at least partly, born of their attitudinal, psychosocial and possibly physiological inadequacies in relation to sex and relationships. As carriers of deep-rooted weaknesses, maladaptations, and possibly physical and mental ailments, that have kept them from pursuing natural, healthy, meaningful sexual relationships (i.e. more than one).
In other words, those who find comfort in railing against the ill-effects of pornography, and of “sexual immorality” in general, are the sort of people who are suffering from deep-seated inadequacies of their own. Either directly sexual in nature, or indirectly related to it in other ways. But given their inability to deal with these matters head-on, the religious worldview of sex-rejecting, self-abnegation becomes a predictable refuge. And for whom the idea of marriage (traditional virgin marrying a virgin) becomes an easy way out. A moral copout, and for the loser, the sort who dominates the ranks of Christian preachers, an easy way to get laid.
I mean just from the look of it, doesn’t it seem that the kind people who get involved in religious life, the really active ones, tend to come off as a bit weird. Leaving aside the group of men who choose to lead celibate lives for God’s sake. The non-clerical religious types also don’t exactly come across as the suavest. Far from it. And in the case of women (preachers and ministers): it is hard-pressed to find any that qualify as young and sexy. It goes without saying that the religious arena is not the home of celebrities, sports stars, and supermodels. Quite the converse really. In fact, an argument can be made that the type of people who tend to get engrossed in religious life are the boring, unadventurous, sexless, unenterprising sort.
This is probably why the persons who fall into the other (successful) category, are the sort who tend to get demonized as indulgent, proud, and of course “Sinful”, by these world rejecting religionists. Those who have made rejecting the joys of life, specifically the good life, their vocation. Needless to say, it is the superstars amongst us: actors, pop stars, sportsmen, and the like who score big when it comes to sex. Real sex that is. And thus are less likely to be burdened by the need for the low-hanging sexual escapism of porn. The sort of problems that paradoxically bedevils the religious, more than the others.
If one works the religious critic of porn backward, it becomes apparent that many, if not all of these people who rail against the evils of porn (and of sex in extension) are either having a lousy sex life (including the married ones) or are having NO sex whatsoever, in addition to the celibate clergy.
Worse, these are the kind of people who have not discovered or developed a practical way out of their malaise; for reasons that extend into other areas of life. For when it comes to leading a sexually satisfying life, this point works logically into the socio-economic facet of life. In the real world, this equals, besides being able to make a decent income, the attainment of higher status, and the possession/access to greater wealth, which contributes to the acquisition of power.
So when it comes to these puritanical failures-in contrasted to the celebrities, sports stars, and CEOs-it is fair to assume they go around critiquing porn, mainly owing to their weak or low social status. One which is justified by a religious worldview (or at least a distorted view of it) that condemns success in the material and sensual dimensions as immoral or evil. Hence the comfort provided by a morally restrictive, cloistered world, one that is characteristic of the religious, is one that weakens or further weakens the initiative to go out and build a life that is meaningful and joyful in an existential sense.
So the world of the religious condemns not just porn: the admittedly immoral reality of on-screen sex, but also empowering realities of market enterprise, creativity, beauty, and sensuality. And in its places forwards a failure-justifying worldview. All the while casting a critical eye-fox and the grapes style-towards that which they cannot have. Or worse, something they wish not to pursue.
Taking a step back, when one looks at the Christian arena: consisting of fallen pastors, priests, the many men and women who walk away from their vocation; along with the growing decline in interest amongst the youth towards a life that is characterized by chastity, poverty, and obedience (39), These realities point to the fact that modern Christianity’s warped attitudes towards the good things in life: sex, beauty, sensuality, and success are the real catalysts for its opposition to porn, rather than its doctrinally immoral character.
Porn: A Reflection of Something Deeper
The word ‘pornography’ is not a fashionable term. Given its obvious association with sex, it carries with it a certain stigma. A fact which I have attempted to show, in the course of this essay, in relation to the Christian, and specifically Catholic worldview, are primarily for the wrong reasons. Porn, as a concept has come to be associated with a host of negative feelings and notions. With criticism and opposition to it-a lot of it justified-emanating from the religious and secular realms. From self-indulgence, immorality, objectification, exploitation, addiction, sexism and of course, Sin.
When seen from a religiously puritanical (which in practice means hypocritical) perspective, the sort that tends to dominate such debates, the main problem with porn, it is worth reiterating is that it is sexual. And this is where the main problem with the critic of porn lies. Sex is a key aspect of our lives, for some more than others. It is a source of joy, meaning and even purpose (e.g. Jacob working for 14 years for the hand of Rachel).
Unfortunately, this key facet of life, and complex emotions, feelings sensations, and urges that underlie it, have thanks to the dominance of the religious worldview, has become a source of guilt, a harbinger of shame, and ironically becoming a disempowering force that bears down on the human spirit. The very converse of its primary function: which is to give man purpose. The idea of wanting better sex naturally corresponds to the idea of wanting a better life.
So when one speaks of the conflicting and conflictual attitudes that people maintain towards pornography, it is one that stems from the same set of unease that people have towards sex. Much of which in the West, stems from the Christian faith’s unease with sexuality as an affirmative force in life. Whose functions and cultural significance extends beyond the parameters of family, morality and procreation. Engaging the reasons that underlie the Christian faith’s unease with sex is a complex matter. One that goes beyond the extent of this work. But the factors that work into this equation (i.e. societies conflictual attitudes sex) are connected to the problems that people have with porn.
For now, it is worth stating that pornography is something that has come to be vilified, partly or arguably, primarily, owing to its sexual character. Not necessarily with its let’s say, immoral presentation. If anything, the real problem ‘people’ (i.e. those who have made it their mission to rail against the evils of porn) have with pornography, stems from their unease with the reality of sex. One that is complex, dynamic, and ever-evolving in beauteous ways (No. I am not talking about Transgenderism).
One that does not neatly fit into the, what can be described as the ‘Fairytale Framework’ of sex, that the religious idealise. Which goes something like this: A girl, who choose to be a virgin till she gets married, meets a boy. They go out a couple of times-end up liking each other-fall in love-get married-have sex with each other for the first time (only in the missionary position)-the girl conceives during the first rounds of intercourse-they have kids-in meantime there’s absolutely no hint of extramarital relations. And the faithful couple lives happily and chastely ever after in joyful matrimony till the end of their days.
This fantasy hardly ever plays out in reality. And even if it does (a big if), it usually means one or both parties in the marriage, are either very good at keeping secrets; or are deeply screwed up at different levels, where their moral conformity masks more serious, fundamental flaws or problems. Once again, this subject is one that enters into the broader equation of sex and Christianity. Which I will delve into in a future essay. But it should be obvious why those who espouse this ‘fairytale framework’ of sex and relationships (often for the wrong reasons) have trouble coming to terms with, let alone understanding the reality of porn. They don’t possess the capacity, desire, and/or the will to pursue it intellectually, and to live it in actuality.
What I have tried to do in the course of this essay is not so much as defend the goodness of porn, than to understand the nature of its reality. And in the process, attempting to make sense of it: the positive traits of porn, and by extension sex, and the good life that underlies these. So the reader must bear in mind that despite whatever ‘good things’ I may have to say about it, at a more fundamental level, I am in congruence (believe it or not) with the moral critic of porn, that stems from the Right (religious) and the left (feminists). One that is best-at least to my mind-articulated by the Catholic Church.
As the Catechism of the Catholic Church teaches: “Pornography consists in removing real or simulated sexual acts from the intimacy of the partners, in order to display them deliberately to third parties. It offends against chastity because it perverts the conjugal act, the intimate giving of spouses to each other. It does grave injury to the dignity of its participants (actors, vendors, the public) since each one becomes an object of base pleasure and illicit profit for others. It immerses all who are involved in the illusion of a fantasy world. It is a grave offence” (40).
However, the problem with this critic/characterization, as the reader should have guessed, is its reductive character. There’s seems to be no effort on part of, whoever the educated religious minds that developed and formalized this dictum, to understand the factors and forces that contribute to its emergence, at the individual and societal levels.
Owing to the simplicity of perspective, that translates into the outright moral condemnation of pornography as a thing in itself, that is soon followed by calls for its legal prohibition, exemplified by the Church’s support for State-mandated restrictions on pornographic content, noted in the final part of the Church’s critic of porn outlined in the Catechism, under the heading of “Offences against Chastity”. Where it calls on civil authorities to “prevent the production and distribution of pornographic materials” (ibid). In other words, if the Catholic Church has its way (in a political and legal sense), what we will be faced with is the potential reality of religious totalitarianism in the moral sphere. At least a version of it, the sort that one finds in much of the Islamic world, where religious law and civil are essentially one.
Whilst this is not to say that Western Christianity is inherently totalitarian in ambition. The separation between Church and State is a cherished aspect of polities in the West, particularly in America. Further, and paradoxically, the religious perspective on such issues need not be totally divorced from social life. For religions do add, despite all their problems, a valuable perspective. to the converse. After all porn, despite its many positives, does many things wrong. One that can be, and often is, missed, ignored or justified within a purely secular, nihilistic worldview.
Hence my critic of the Christian (Catholic) critic of porn, is mainly of the underlying character of the religious institutions themselves. That which are inherently sexless in character. One which impels them to critic moral deviances, especially in the sexual realm more strongly than others. This is an old problem with religions. Especially the monotheistic ones. Where attitudes towards sex: the act itself, and the dynamics that work into and stem from it, are often viewed as problematic, simply because they are pleasurable, Earthly, existential and essentially man-centric. (After all, one cannot have sex with transcendental beings. Nor is sex, according to the Christian framework, part of the reward package for eternal life. At least not that I am aware of.
Monotheistic religions today have come to define themselves (or at least that is perception) in the modern world in terms of their particularistic emphasis on sex. Notably their opposition to pre-marital and extra-marital intercourse. Accompanied by a deeper unease with masturbation, contraception, and of course pornography.
Interestingly enough, the condemnation of these deviances has arisen hand in hand with the great emphasis that is placed on them evangelically. Which seems to imply their pervasiveness within the world of the religious. So to pose the question again: From the standpoint of the religious, why are these lot so negative towards pornography and sex? Meaning, what are there underlying reasons that relate to the character of the faith that predisposes them to oppose it?
One explanation why sex is not the bread and butter subject of the religious, the clerical and laity, which in turns fuels their antipathy towards porn, is due to, funnily enough, the Christian faith’s overt focus on the idea of ‘love’. Whilst love is central to the belief: notably, the doctrinal position that God himself is Love. However, there is a clear lack of emphasis on the Eros within the Christian faith. Eros is a concept, besides its obvious connection to the sexual, is one that adopts a celebratory view of the feminine.
Female sexuality, notably its erotic form and character are conspicuously absent within the Christian worldview. A key facet of the debate on porn that I have not delved into is the role and perception of women within the monotheistic framework: The religious opposition to porn, at one level, stems from a simplistic, but nonetheless morally legitimate view of women as mothers and wives primarily or solely. Needless to say, when it comes to pornography, the sex that is on display is not the most family-oriented: Where the focused act does not stem from a relational (i.e. commitment-oriented) or procreative perspective.
Going further, we encounter the world of adult content as a reflection of the state of culture. By culture, I am speaking of the increasingly post-Christian West. And the West is the place from which much of the pornographic content originates. The West is a place where human sexuality, freedom, personal creativity and individualism and the ideologies that underpin or emerge out of them (libertarian economics) manifest. And notable here is the celebration of the feminine: For the West is also the place where catwalk, fashion runways, beauty pageants, and speaking of the above picture, beach volleyball, that feature fit girls in swimsuits, abound. In the world of porn, as I have argued, these very realities manifest in an integrated, and yes, artistic fashion (a position I will stand by).
In porn, there is a confluence of factors and forces that together give rise to its reality: beauty, sensuality, erotic. In sum the wonder of the female form. The reason why pornography is popular in popular culture is not simply because there are some “bad” about it, made by “bad” people with nefarious intentions. But porn at a deeper level is able to command the attention that it does, and succeed as a commercial venture, is because it is able to capture something good.
The fact that there are hundreds of millions of people around the world who wish to consume it, and many thousands that pay for it are “positive” indicators. This is basic economics. Which by the way is a grey area for most philosophers, to say nothing of unenterprising religionists (41). You know, the same old nitwits who habitually demonize the evils of money, but then come crawling to you asking for more, come donation time.
So when the Catholic Church condemns the profit-oriented character of the pornographic industry, it fails to consider that one of the reasons why porn is appealing to the human mind. Particularly the youthful and energetic (words that are difficult to associate with anything religious these days). Which corresponds to wants and that whilst connected to porn, but points towards deeper yearnings. Notably the want for good, frequent, satisfying sex, and the good life that underpins it.
Our want for sex, if one has read anything by Abraham Maslow and his hierarchy of needs (the a, b, c of business education), one would know that the human person is disposed to seek after things: simple but essential things first (food, shelter, clothing); then onto better things and then to higher, greater things and experiences. Sex is one of them. But not just in a functional sense, but as something that features as a part of one’s state in life. One of the reasons underlying the demand for porn, at one level, is that people, especially men (who are its main consumers) are not getting enough of it. In other words, there is a need and wants problem underlying it. One which goes beyond porn, and even sex.
When it comes to the human mind, particularly the modern Western mind: one that is economically empowered, and intellectually liberated, at least wants to be so, there are deeper needs, higher aspirations that pertain to other areas of life. Those which are also connected to the sexual. Some of those wants, owing to the inability to meet them in the real world, are being sought after in the world of fantasy. In the case of pornography, this takes the form of fantastical sex.
What do I mean by sex that is fantastical? Think of it this way, whilst many of us, especially those in committed relationships, may pat ourselves on the back and say that we are leading an emotionally and sexually satisfying life. However, does that really mean all of our sexual needs, particularly the racy ones, the ones that we dare not admit to our partners, or even to ourselves? Whilst having a satisfactory sex life is one thing, but having an ‘awesome’ one could be something else. Here is a thought experiment: What would it be like to be in a three, no foursome involving a hot Scandinavian blonde, a luscious Irish redhead, and a beauteous black-haired Hispanic? Pretty good.
In other words, the search for and consumption of pornography, at a deeper (yes that word again) is something that goes beyond the mere need to fulfil the carnal urges of a needy, and possibly sex-addicted mind. For the sort of sex that is set in fantastical settings, acted out by paid performers, and sought out by countless many, carries, as the Catechism rightly points out, an otherworldly feel (i.e. its fantastical character).
However, therein lies the profundity of its appeal. Besides having the capacity to give the impression of satisfying the temporal urges of the consumer, pornography becomes the doorway for the mind to, not fulfill, but at least live out its fantastical urges in other aspects of life. Which corresponds to a higher standard of living: embodied by the presence of luxury, status and underlying it all the possession of power. In the financial, creative and relational arenas.
For all its controversies, the key reason why pornography is appealing to the human mind at a near-universal level is that it is sexual. A point that must not be forgotten. For when one looks at the most vocal critics of porn (the legal variety), are those who find it morally problematic, in addition to the legal. But their moral unease with porn often masks deeper problems, which could be sexual, psychological, physiological or psychiatric in character; in addition to the obvious unease felt by those who have chosen a sexless way of life.
So the commanding position of pornography in popular culture, when judged purely from the standpoint of political and moral discourse: The portrayal of women; the role of internet service providers and search engines in managing content; the function of governments in regulation and security, particularly the importance of protecting minors; porn’s effects on sexual and romantic relationships, notably men’s expectations when it comes to actual sex; to the future evolution and uses of technology in the sexual and other arenas; and in context of Christianity, the deeper questions on morality and (Christian) anthropology it raises. The sheer scope of porn, in terms of its impacts on many aspects of our lives, means that pornography, as a thing in itself, despite its numerous shortfalls, is doing something, not many things, right.
In Conclusion
Most of us have heard about a man named Osama Bin Laden. The mastermind of 9/11. Following the assassination of the terrorist who orchestrated the attacks on the U.S. homeland; taken out by U.S special forces in his compound in Pakistan; the Americans who carried out the operation discovered a large trove of data and other belonging in his Abbottabad base. Amongst the many useful things they found was a “huge stash” of porn (42). Strange isn’t it. For a man who built his mission on hating everything that America and the West stood for. In simple terms: Life, Liberty, and the pursuit of Happiness. An ideal, that in the most cynical sense was defined by its rampant materialism, individualism, hedonism, and growing irreligious character.
The American Dream, in a more simple and reasonable light, could be understood as the pursuit of money, or financial independence; which leads to power. Power, the necessary kind that gives one the ability to control his/her life. Which in time, other things being equal or ideally improving, helps elevate the social/public profile of the person. Which translates into the attainment of honor. In the context of sex, these realities, as I have argued, correspond to the access or greater access to new and better sources of pleasure (sex).
And porn, or rather the world characterized by the erotic, with the promise of sensual satisfaction, underpinned by material opulence are reflections of what a good life filled with money, power and honor embody. So when it comes to this most wanted terrorist, despite his outward hate of America and what it represented, his ideology which functioned in opposition to the American way of life, one that was embraced by his many followers, ultimately proved to be a sham. As a hypocrite who consumed and sought after the very things he sought to destroy as evil, ended up, by his secretive adoption, elevating them as well.
So when it comes to many of these Bible-thumping religionists in the (formerly) Christian West, their underlying antipathy towards pornography whilst understandable from a moral standpoint: for what porn represents goes against virtually every aspect of moral teachings the Christian faith upholds with respect to sex. But their basis of opposition fails at a deeper, personal level. The underlying problem Christianity has with pornography is not with pornography per se, but what it has come to be represented: The importance of personal freedom, the pursuit of wealth, the value of social status, the importance of power. Porn, as a social and intellectual manifestation of these realities at a deeper or more overt level, is opposed by the Christian faith which today stands for the very converse.
Returning to the example of the Albanian nun (Mother Treasa), who was an embodiment of poverty, sacrifice, powerlessness, and loneliness. The fact that the Catholic Church and the Christian world more generally elevated this person as a symbol of God points to the deeper break between Christianity as an intellectual and cultural system with the more individualistic, artistic, capitalistic (i.e. entrepreneurial and self-driven), existentially orientated, and one could say humanistic worldview of the West.
So fighting the evils of porn, speaking from a Christian perspective, whilst for the most part, well-intended is a foolhardy venture. It is a losing battle. The teaching of the Church in relation to sex and morality, in general, cannot be communicated to the Western mind, as some moralistic pill, whilst insisting that people somehow live by the fairytale framework on sex and relationships in light of the complexities of human life.
The religious, the Christian kind, particularly Catholics, need to come up with something better in confronting the reality of porn, in its problematic character. To do so would require them to view it not simply as something evil, immoral, exploitative; but something more. And let there be no illusions, porn fundamentally is problematic. However, in its manifestation, it embodies many good things.
To close with something spiritual. The real problem with porn is not with the pornographic industry, the people who search for it, view it, pay off it. Rather it is with human nature. Man as a Fallen being carries within himself a deeper predilection for evil. And evil manifests itself in many ways. Some of them are sexual in nature. Other not so. The problem with Christianity, and frankly all religions in the modern world, is that they focus primarily, or solely on the sexual facet of the Fallen state of man. This is probably the worst place to start if spiritual healing and conversion of the heart are the main objectives.
The Christian Faith’s (moral and spiritual) opposition to pornography, and sexual immorality in general, whilst understandable, is untenable from an evangelical standpoint. Especially when one considers the dangers of hypocrisy. Which is endemic amongst the religious (The abuse scandals in the Catholic Church being a case in point). The many challenges the Christian Churches face today in connecting with the masses. (In addition to the NONES, there is the growing problem of fewer persons entering religious life) (ibid).
These are the signs of the times. The Churches best pay attention to them, and as a start, first look inward and seek to rectify their own problems. And in the meantime gain control over its many self-indulgent preachers (hypocrites), and sexless celibates who go around talking about things which they understand little or unworthy to speak authoritatively on. Things need to change fast. The real problem with porn and society lies with the Church. The fact that there is nothing comparably attractive and desirable within it.
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